by Grady

Gender: Male
Age: 60
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Minnesota
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Higher Education
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Somewhat curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0


How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were younger than us, complete strangers.  We’d said something to them as we walked into the club and they spoke to us a couple times once we were there.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? A libertine (swing) club on the Mediterranean coast in France.  We were staying at a resort there, and after dinner rather impulsively went into the club and had a drink or two and watched the dancing, getting increasingly turned on. We had talked about this prior to going on this vacation, but I wouldn’t say we’d seriously planned it.  I suppose we knew it was very likely given that we were at a clothing optional resort.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went into a small room by ourselves, and a few minutes later they asked if they could join us.  Clothes came off, my wife starting with oral sex on the other man, while I touched both women.  The other woman lay down between me and the man, and under my wife, who went from oral to getting fucked from behind by the other guy, and sucking on my cock.  I fingered the other woman, who sucked on my wife’s tits.  My wife gave oral to the other woman after the man came.  My wife really was into it.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I, interestingly, did not come during the encounter, but did several other times during the evening.  My wife did, and the other guy did, not sure about the other woman.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condoms, but didn’t discuss it, as the other couple did not speak english.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Curiosity and desire.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, we’d had several drinks, not sure about them.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? They disappeared, we went back upstairs and watched the very hot and very sexual dancing going on there.  We went back downstairs to the private rooms and had sex again, but didn’t lure anyone in to join us.  We watched others having sex, as well. We’ll never see them again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one till now.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all, it was awesome.  My wife said “the problem with this is you want more of it.”

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Incredibly sexy, and yes it made me, and I think my wife, look at other people, almost anyone we find desirable, as possible sexual partners.  I’m more confident, more open, and more adventurous.  I really do want more of it.  Wife is more cautious, interestingly. I sometimes wonder if she is afraid she’ll like it too much.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Would love to have it happen again – wife insists that the partners must be anonymous and strangers, but they have to be appealing.  I think we’ll look for such a club in the United States.

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