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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Santa Barbara
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Horny all the time
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? about 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none

Coed Sex

How long ago did this hookup happen? last week

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Being a student in college is pussy heaven. Ever since I arrived on campus for the first time a few years ago, there have been lots of opportunities to hook up. I find that the more partners I get the more the partners I want and the better I get at sex. In this case, I met Jen at a restaurant. She was a server. Jen had long slim legs that were not shaved. That looked different and sexy. I usually meet my partners on Tinder, or I just strike up a conversation with women I see wherever I meet. I ask if she is a student at the university and start the conversation from there. I made a date with Jen. We had tacos then went for a walk on the beach. I find that whenever a good talk on the beach is involved, there is a near 100% chance to move on to sex.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It didn’t take much under the moonlight and listening to the sound of the waves for things to get romantic, in a casual way. After sitting on the beach for a a couple hours talking, we were getting frisky with each other, which led to kissing. I didn’t have to do much. I just said it’s getting cold, held her around my arms, and said let’s go back. I held her hand walking back to my room.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once back in the room, we started making out and our clothes came off soon. I like to experiment as much as possible. With Jen, I started slow with massaging and stroking her body. I was complimenting her on how sexy she looked. Then I started talking dirty to her. Then I started licking her clit. I love diving in between a girl’s legs and taking in the aroma of her. I told her that I loved her aroma. She was getting quite wet. At that point, I penetrated her and started stroking in and out slowly, asking her what felt good. Soon she was getting into it and her moaning picked up. After a while, I flipped her around and started fucking her doggystyle. This brought her to an orgasm. I could hear the sound of her wetness as I pounded into her. I pulled out to lick her juices, and then I started fingering her pussy and her ass. She started moaning again, so I started fucking her again doggystyle. This time, I was banging into her much more forcefully, which made her scream. That brough me to an orgasm. We laid together to talk and to take a break. When I got an erection again, we went on to round two. This was straight missionary style, but I pounded her a lot harder and I started pulling her hair. I find that getting rough turns both partners on after the we are comfortable with conventional style sex. This brought us both to another awesome orgasm.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Afterwards, I walked her back to her place. I always like acting gentleman-ly, especially after good sex. I makes for more sex later. I’ll probably ask her out again, although not exclusively.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? N/A

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got laid and with another new partner.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing at all.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? This was just one of many, but as of this new school year, I find that I have reached a level of confidence where I can meet new partners and while enhancing my sexual repertoire.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? There is so much on the internet these days that a guy has no excuse for not being good at sex. I started out just getting off quickly, but as I read and saw different techniques, I started trying more things. I found the more I make a woman feel good, the better the sex gets. It’s an ego thing for me as well to be able to make girls scream with pleasure and orgasm. I also have to admit that I am getting addicted to the chase and the new excitement of new partners. I enjoy the communication.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is good for learning new things.

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