What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 56
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Western Alaska
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? multi skilled
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? horny all the time
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 60+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2
Cold Days In Alaska, What Better to Do?
How long ago did this hookup happen? 32 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She is a native Eskimo, had long black hair, a nice smile, and she was curvy with large breasts. She seemed like a nice lady and was friendly. She was in her mid to late 30’s and I was about 24. As I recall she was at least 10 years older than me.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? One day, I went to the local Alaska Commercial Company to shop. It was cold out, but I walked a few blocks to get there. I saw Billy, a guy I knew and we were chatting a bit in the lobby. I also saw her standing there with him, with her long hair and a fancy fur parka. He introduced us and she was engaging and told me she was stuck in town because the planes were grounded due to weather.
So I went and did my shopping and was heading out when I saw Billy had gone, but she was still there. So I went and chatted with her some more and invited her over and I could cook up some lunch. She agreed and we walked back to my place.
When we got to my place it was warm from the wood stove and so she made herself comfy in my tiny little house crafted out of a cargo van. I put on some music and cooked up a lunch and fed her. We enjoyed some conversation, and it turned out she was married and had a daughter that went to the hospital for some health things occasionally so she traveled to town for appointments. After we ate, decided to watch a little TV which meant getting on my bed. We watched TV for a while, and I kept staring at her and soon she pulled up close to me, and the kissing started. We made no beating around the bush, and after a few solid kisses I got up and we both just stripped naked.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I stood up with my cock standing full and hard. I crawled on the bed on my knees, she opened her legs to me, and I crept up to position the tip of my cock on the lips of her pussy and rubbed it around until the wetness of her lips pulled me in. Once I was in, as I held eye contact with her, I started pushing and she just really soaked it up. I dominated her and put her in almost any position I could imagine. I was fucking her hard the majority of the time. I remember the heat of the stove made me sweat, and we were so sweaty that I was sliding on top of her. I came inside her every single time, I never asked and she never said anything about it either, she just let me have her and fill her with my sperm. Each time she would hold me to stay inside her until I was soft. She stayed all day and night and the next day at about noon she had to go, but I fucked her every time my 24-year-old cock could get up. Even when we slept, I would wake up and just grab her and fuck her some more, she took it all like a good horny woman who knew how to handle a horny man.
When she left I had a good nap.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After she was gone I wished she was still there just because I love to fuck so much, but I did have several ladies that would come to me when they came to town. After a few weeks, she called me and I let her come over. We never wasted time getting to the business. She told me she was in an arranged marriage to an older man and that she wasn’t happy, but that was life. For about six months she would drop in and we would fuck. She never stayed all night though, she would just come over, fuck, and then she would leave to go to the hospital where her daughter was.
Eventually, I realized I had enough pussy in my life, and her husband was on my mind. I think she picked up on my vibes because she stopped coming over.
The interesting thing is later when I went to the hospital with my 2nd wife I saw her there, with her husband. She recognized me and kept staring at me. This was like 25 years later. When I walked to the cafeteria she followed and said hi to me and asked if I remembered her. I told her of course. I was cordial, and I still see her around, even today.
I plan to have a word with her sometime just to tell her how I really appreciated that moment in our lives…
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my wife when we saw her at the hospital so many years later. She was tickled to see her react towards me the way she did, and how she followed me to the cafeteria.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The thrill of having sex in a short time of meeting each other, and fucking any way we desired until totally we were exhausted, with no hesitation from the woman involved. It was game on all the way!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That I couldn’t excrete more of my sperm into her… I was totally spent
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I was amazed to know it actually can happen and i wish it was always so easy to find… like a unicorn, rare and almost mythical
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I just really enjoyed the time and I loved how between fucking she got a needle and thread and sewed my torn winter parka…for years I would see those stitches and remember her.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It has provided me with so many memories and regret that I cannot freely pursue casual sex in my small town.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? great site and i read often the stories therein
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