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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 47
What’s your race/ethnicity? Middle Eastern
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Malaysia
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Pilot
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? ~
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 34
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 31st December 2016

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a Chinese college girl out with her friends on New Years Eve at a club called Zouk. Didn’t know her at all. I was with my long time friends having a drink at our table when I noticed her and another of her girl friends dancing at the floor.

I walked up to them holding my champagne glass when she accidentally swung her arm and hit the glass. It spilled all over my shirt. I took that advantage and asked her to follow me to the washroom. She was to stand outside while I go in wipe off.

She saw my shirt really spoiled so she told me she’d pay for it. I could see she was quite high already. Her friend was still at the dance floor. I told her the price, she was shocked but i told her she cannot back out. We went outside of the club and she was going through her purse when she noticed she haven’t got enough cash.

It was 11:30pm. She told me she could help me do something instead. Straight up i asked her whether she had a boyfriend. She said not really. So i called the jockey to bring my car. I drove a Porsche. She liked it and i asked her if she wanted to go for a ride. Knowing she was drunk, she said okay.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Drove to the hotel I was staying. 10 mins to 2017.

I returned her money to her with an additional huge tip. Poured her more drinks. I slipped the money into her purse.

Then carried her to my bedroom and laid her on the bed. I caressed her body and remove her skirt. She whispered saying she’s not done this before so i ought to go slow on her. Stripped her down to her panties. She wasn’t shaved but I didn’t care.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was beautiful. About 170cm tall, slim but not so slim, about 34B cups, long legs and a delicious pussy. Mhmm was she amazing. She’s 20 years old. Saw it on her ID.

I licked her pussy and she moaned, and then I removed my jeans, gently carried her head towards my cock. She hesitated to open her mouth but eventually did and i controlled her head. Pushed in and out until I came in her mouth and made her swallow. After that I inserted again until I came on her face. She moaned a lot.

Ended the night thrusting my cock into her pussy but I came into her mouth again. I enjoyed her. I dressed her up later before driving her back to the club after. She was up by then. She didn’t mention a thing to anyone. She rejoined her friends, and I became secret santa and paid their bills.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? When i paid their bills it was also taking advantage of her. It was worth about 15,000 Malaysian ringgit. I turned to her again. She agreed to meet me over 5 future occasions where I’ll get to have sex with her again.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication, Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Shared with my friends that were with me. Most of them applauded and asked me when I’m meeting her again. One also asked me to introduce him to her or her friends.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I have finally gotten to have a Chinese girl. Never have i ever imagined this happening. She was sweet, shy, delicate and delicious. I wish for more.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? She was so wasted lying there it was hard to move her around.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? ?

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s good.

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