What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? East London
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Students
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I would say I’m straight — just not 100% straight — I like to masterbate with men (i.e., top them)
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

College Sex: Bisexual Male Experience

How long ago did this hookup happen? last weekend

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Marc is about 6ft tall and skinny. He has shoulder length brown hair and green eyes. He is pale, white, and doesn’t have much body hair. He has an uncircumcised penis that’s about 6 inches erect and thicker than mine, and a nice set of balls— the pigment of his genitals is a bit darker, and he has a moist pink glans that peeks out the foreskin.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I’m a junior in college and would consider myself straight just not 100% straight! My freshman year, a fellow in my dorm thought I was really hot and wanted me to top him, NSA. So I started topping this guy regularly as a substitute to masterbation. I was still dating women but I enjoyed the release that came with the very sexual aspect of topping. He was a twink like me but smaller and more feminine. I am about 7.5 inches erect and I have a long, straight, and narrow penis. I am in fantastic shape since I am a varsity track athlete.
Anyway, it’s my junior year and I have another NSA topping relationship with a fellow. I just text him, and drop by his dorm. His name is Marc and he’s French Canadian, aged 19. His has a single room, and I fucked him last Friday morning— I prefer off times. I texted him after morning practice, arrived at about 10:30 am after showering since I ran 3 miles. We have a set routine.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I arrived and greeted him — we don’t kiss. I take my clothes off and lay down on the bed, he also strips. He starts to give me an erotic massage sitting on me — starting with my shoulders and arms, torso, and lots of time on my legs. He starts to caress my erection and I start leaking precum.
He turns me over and does a deep massage of my gluts and runs his fingers over my anus. He then flips me over and proceeds to give me a slow, gentle blowjob that is really just a handjob with kisses to the glans. He inserts a lubed finger into my anus and massages my prostrate. I love this dual stimulation and quickly reach a plateau, Marc increases the jerking of my shaft and stops on occasion to suck on my testicles. After 10 minutes I ejaculate into Marc’s mouth: 5 strong squirts, and he swallows it all.
We lay together for a few minutes and drink some Gatorade. Soon I am erect again. Marc and I kiss with our erections touching, our hands explore our firmness. Marc announced, “I’m ready: I want you inside.” At this point, I open the side table to get a yellow Lifestyle ultra thin latex condom, and role it on. Marc has applied KY to his anus, and I cover the condom in the KY too. Marc gets on his knees, assuming the doggie position. I insert one finger into his anus to make sure he’s relaxed and help open his rectum. Marc is a great bottom and practices with dildos. I finish my probing, and withdraw my finger looking carefully for any brown traces, but it’s clean. It amazes me how clean anal sex can be. It’s really actually cleaner than my GF’s pussy!
Anyway, I love inserting. I gently stroke my penis to keep it rock hard, and Marc relaxes his anus sphincter. With the daylight, I clearly see my condom covered penis move up to the anus rosebud. I like to think of this as my glans and his anal sphincter french kissing. The KY is everywhere and I just make contact, glans to anus like a kiss and pull back. I do this motion over and over and the KY draws wet strings between his anus and my glans. I’m teasing and drawing the process out! I gently push in and start “French kissing” penetrating just a half inch, the top of my glans into his anus, feeling it open to take me. I continue this for a minute, and then grab his hips and slowly push in — into his rectum.
It’s warm and feels fantastic, I pull out and do some gentle thrusts about 3 inches inside the rectum. I go deeper and after a few minutes, I’m balls deep inside his rectum, his anus squeezes gently, I can feel the “O” distinctly, very different from a vagina canal. He starts to pant and moan while I play with his scrotum and hold his hips. I start thrusting deeply with vigor, and the bed starts to make squeaking noises. Our neighbors know exactly what’s going on… the walls are thin. We are quietly fucking: ass fucking.
At this moment, about 7 minutes into the anal penetration, I withdraw and re-lubricate my penis and Marc’s anus. I position him “ass up, head down” in the kneeling doggie position and re-insert deeply, and I start pounding his ass, grabbing his hips and pressing deep. I can feel his rectum stretch to accommodate my deep thrusts. As I press in deep, I can push another inch. The sex becomes very vigorous and athletic. I reach a plateau and just love watching my dick rapidly penetrating his anus, disappearing into his body. He is moaning and jerking his dick. He cums hard, and I feel his anus contract squeezing my penis as he ejaculates. The cum makes dark stains on the blue sheets. After a few more minutes, I can smell my own sweat and Marc’s body odor, the smell of sex. I’m pumping hard, like a work out… I feel the buildup, and grunt squeezing his hips and draw deep within him to release my semen. My ejaculation takes about 8 seconds and features 4 strong squirts. I stay inside for a few seconds until I can feel the blood moving out of my penis, the erection receding. I thank Marc for sharing his body with me and allowing me to fuck him in the arse. It is a great sexual conquest to penetrate another male and withdrawal, and yet Marc loves it. He likes to be dominated, but I’m never rude or slap his arse. I always try to be gentle yet vigorous!

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I slowly take off the condom and look at the white load in the tip, carefully tie a knot on the base of the condom, and place it on the side table. Like the Olympics, I declare it the best sex session I’ve ever had. I don’t really think about this as a relationship, it’s just animal eroticism. I think of it like the stallion fucking the horse, and to me, it’s just athletic. My hips ache the next day from thrusting. My penis and testicles ache a bit from being so flushed with blood during the prolonged erection, I feel fantastic.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, Power / Dominance, Everyone else was/is doing it, It was easy/convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I keep m2m sex private. I date a female and just have excess sexual energy that heterosexual sex can’t fulfill. With her it’s a relationship and making love which is very different than being on your knees and getting fucked in the ass for 30 minutes. Both are fun, but the former is better of course!

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The shear excitement of fucking a good looking twink (slender young man) in the arse for 30 minutes with foreplay that included a bj and cumming in his mouth. It’s like a GBP 500 sex session with a professional female escort but it was free with a gay bottom.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I enjoy the m2m sex more than PIV with my GF — that said, I know I will make babies with females, not males!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I look at it as two options, masturbation alone or m2m masturbation. If men wish to be fucked in the arse by me (and enjoy it) what’s the harm? I do worry that it might become addicting as it’s so sexually pleasing to watch my cock in/out this teen’s arse. It is insanely erotic.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Nope. We’ll do it again and again. I like to have a regular fuck-buddy. No interest in getting on Grindr.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex should be seen as an alternative to solo masturbation and nothing more.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy reading other’s experiences both good and bad.

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