What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Alabama
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 28
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was 36. Good looking 5’9″ nice build.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We meet at a hotel bar where we were both staying for a conference. He saw me walk in and approached me while I was having drinks with friends. After some time of friendly banter and “getting to know you” conversation, he leaned over and said, “I don’t mean to be too forward, but would you like to come up to my room?” I told him maybe. I knew I would need to get away from my co-workers first. Before he left he slipped me his room number. He left but I stayed in the bar and had a few more drinks, hoping to be able to slip away soon. It was taking too long and he come back to the bar to find me talking to one of his co-workers. He left once again. I finally was able to slip out and I went directly to his room. I knocked I the door and he let me in.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When I got in his room he told me he was glad that I came up. I grabbed him and started to kiss him. I could feel him getting aroused though his clothes. I lead him to the bed where I pulled him on top of me. We kissed for a long time, until I started to take his shirt off and he started to undress me. When we were finally naked he went down on me and I came. He climbed on top of me and fucked me for a while, I came again. He flipped me over and took me from behind when he came. We hung out for a bit, did the get to know you a little talk. And in no time he was hard again. He pulled me on top on him. I rode him and came several times. He had a nice curve to him so it hit in all the right places.
He told me he had never cheated on his wife before, while he had thought about acting on it he never did until he saw me.
After it was all said and done I got dressed, said it was nice to meet you, and left.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I’ll never see this person again, they live in the complete opposite side of the county. I felt pretty good.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Sterilization
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, I was feeling lonely, Boredom
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one knows.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I will never see this person again.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I am married.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think people are too hung up on sex. It’s supposed to be fun as long as it’s between consenting adults.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love it! First time to post.
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