by Golden Girl

Gender: Female
Age: 43
Race/ethnicity: Latin
Current location: Puerto Rico
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Professor
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 7
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Conquer Myself

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 month

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Handsome guy…40 years old. Professional….clean and sexy. Didn’t know him…only that seems to be a good father..and a good son. I meet him in a social media. I feel he was a sweet guy…clean and hot.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In a social media. After a month of continuous flirting…planning was involved to see each other.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We meet in a public place….and then go to his house…with the excuse that he needs to send a client a document. Show me his pretty a bottle of wine…talk about… until we were kissing each other…and in some minutes we were without clothes in the kitchen.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both had orgasms…and it was excellent.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None of us protect our self…we discussed it just seconds before the intercourse.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I need to conquer my fears….All my life I have been very jealous with my body and partners..never make sex without no one without this point of my life..I need to understand that I am a still a gorgeous woman…and that I can feel…I had been alone for 8 months..It was a real challenge for me…besides a single mother …I am a woman who can feel and opposite sex can see me as gourgeous and respectful but also sexy.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? 2 glasses of wine only

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I feel good…I conquer my fears. I am an excellent single mother…and also I understand that I can be an awesome lover. We still flirting…may be someday we would meet again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A friend…reminds me the importance of protection.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Wanted  for both.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No regrets.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing: An amazing sexual experience…it was like we knew each other forever…and we only knew our names.
Worst thing: Overconfidence…use no protection.
This experience change the way I think about casual sex…Now I believe that casual sex can have two faces…and thanks God I see the good one…but it can be very dangerous.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Always protect yourself…and let someone close knows where you are. Ok..and take a picture of the car license plate when possible…haa haa..sorry it was a complete stranger.

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