What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Kansas City, MO
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Technical Recruiter
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Many
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Convention Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Frank a few months before our work conference at a training session for new General Managers. He is a beautiful Latino man from Texas, with a scar over one eye. My district manager was with me and Frank was flying solo. My DM agreed to give him a ride to the hotel and he ended up having dinner with us before we got back to the hotel. We flirted a bit and he gave me his card, while sitting alone in my hotel room, I was tempted to text him…but I didn’t. I kept his card.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We had our huge work conference in DC right around Valentine’s Day. I was there with my DM, owner and 3 other GM’s in our franchise. There were thousands of people attending. On the first night I saw him in the lobby of the hotel as I was going out for dinner with my team, I said hi to him, he stared at me seemingly startled. I ran into him the next night when we had a private party at the Smithsonian aviation museum. We chatted, exchanged numbers and agreed to get together later that night. He texted me to go to the club on the top floor of the hotel later that night, but I decided to decline. The next day we texted all day during the conferences and I was super excited to see him at the awards banquet that night. We stole away to meet in abandoned lobby during the banquet and I knew right there that I wanted to touch him. We agreed to meet later.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? After the awards banquet was over there were people everywhere, massively intoxicated and hooking up all over the place. Frank came over to sit with my team, we drank and flirted, took pictures together and started casually touching each other. We stole away to the bathroom together, he pushed me against the wall and started kissing me. I could feel his hard cock pressing against me, he slipped his hand up my skirt and started fingering my wet clit. We were both ready to go back to his hotel room right then, but we had to go back to the social event. Eventually more alcohol and the evening got later and we found ourselves up at the club on top of the hotel. All of my coworkers were back in their rooms and I was alone with Frank. We went out on the abandoned balcony and started making out again, he turned me around to face the water and discreetly took his cock out, slid my panties to the side and slid himself into my wet pussy. He pushed himself into me and it felt amazing, there was so much sexual tension. I wanted to turn around and ride his cock, but we had to be quiet. He started nibbling at my neck and slid his hands up my shirt and started stimulating my breasts.

We both got so aroused that we decided to take things up to his hotel room. Our ride in the elevator to his room consisted of us kissing, grabbing, rubbing and being laughed at by people when the doors opened. When we got to his room we tore each other’s clothes off. His beautiful tattooed, dark skin was a huge turn on. He started sucking on my light pink nipples and buried his face in my EE breasts. He fucked me missionary and then turned me over and fucked me from behind. We spent the night inside of each other, fell asleep, woke up and kept going. I came multiple times, he was an amazing partner.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After was awkward. I had to get back to my room early so we kissed and I ran. I did the walk of shame back to my hotel room. We texted for months, many promises to meet. He said he was single and wanted to be with me. Turns out he lied. He has like 4 kids and his girlfriend was pregnant at the time with his 5th. I really liked him, but now I just feel sorry for his kids.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Making new friends

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Do you regret this hookup? Very much

Why do you regret this hookup? His kids

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The flirting, sexual tension

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? After

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

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