by Jane D
What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 40
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Counting Ceiling Tiles
How long ago did this hookup happen? last night
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? It was with a guy we’ll call Jon. Tall and very attractive. I have been going through a dry spell and met him on Tinder. He talked a good game so I was psyched for the date.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It began at dinner. He was as cute as his pictures and we clicked pretty well. I was definitely planning on hooking up if things went well, but he instigated it by kissing me as we waited for a car and asking if we should just back to his place. I said yes.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Once we got to his place my clothes came off pretty fast. I was worked up and he was loving the sexy underwear I had bought for the date. Very complimentary, which only made me want it more.
He got naked and that’s where things went wrong. There was nothing wrong with him. I just wasn’t feeling what he was giving me. We had sex in the missionary position and I found myself thinking about the old “counting ceiling tiles” saying. Never a good sign.
He was definitely into it though. And when he finished it was VERY hot, despite the fact that I didn’t orgasm.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We chatted and drank a bit more and I went home shortly after. Very friendly. He texted me the next day too 🙂
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms
What were your motives for this hookup? To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My roommate. She thought it was great me getting back out there.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting back out there and getting a hot guy was a major ego boost!
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Didn’t orgasm, so it was really anticlimactic. Lol.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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