by Eldorado

Gender: male
Age: 41
Race/ethnicity: white
Current location: EU
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: engaged
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 35-40
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Course Company

How long ago did this hookup happen? 7 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? one-night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? In that year, I had to take a practical course, make an exam and get a certificate. At the last stage before the exam, we had to do 2 persons with the same instructor and this was few hours. I had absolutely no idea who would be, not even 1% had imagined..I arrived and there was another girl with reddish hair, slim and very cold face from east EU. I got to know that she was my company for that session. Let’s call her Amanda…

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We finished the session ( it was Wednesday), there was no chance to talk as we had to be fully concentrated. I just had a glance on her, no idea. After the session, we were tired both and we were walking to metro station nearby (less than 10 min walk). We talked and just found out she works on the same branch like me, was highly educated but very distanced. I asked her if she likes to have a coffee, she said yes. We sat in near cafe and talked. She was more relaxed now. We talked about our lives, works, path and funny stories about that country (none of us were from there). Then I asked if she wanted to hang out on coming days. We made an agreement for Friday night.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We met Friday in the city, no big deal, just drink and relaxing and breaking the ice. I could feel by then that there was a chance! After a few hours, I asked if she wanted to come my place on Saturday evening for dinner. She said yes. No kiss that night and we met on Saturday in my place. We ate, had drinks, and then I had grapes and cheese. I got a grape and put one in her mouth and kissed her. She was soft and warm. We made out long, and I managed to get her take off her dress. She had a wonderful body!

After a long period of kissing and hugging, she refused to have sex because she felt it was too fast (well, true). She suggested to go to Zoo on Sunday morning. I agreed even though I was not very happy. Sunday we met in Zoo, she had a very transparent shirt, sexy body and nice hairstyle. After a few hours of fun at the zoo, we kissed and she said let’s go to my place. We got to her flat and started right after entering the door.

We made out long and passionately, and she then undressed me and herself and got on her knee and gave me wonderful head. She played masterfully with my balls and I was in heaven. I took her to bed. She had not shaved her pussy which was a slight turn off for me, but I liked it afterward. She was moaning all the time and she got on top of me and started to ride me. I was playing with her boobs and having her to control the speed. She was getting very wild and having an orgasm. I could not hold back anymore, took her down and asked if she had a condom which she had fortunately. I got it and then started to fuck her in missionary. I was so hard it was surprising for myself! It took 5 min more and then I had the most wonderful orgasm, especially because I could feel the roughness of her unshaven pussy. She was screaming and holding me so tight.

We stayed in bed with my condom still there (something I like), and then we got off the bed after 15-20 min and I was touching her body all over. We ate something quick afterward, and I saw for the 1st time her flat and she had too many plants and flowers! We started to make out again, and I was so horny. So we got back to bed again after 30 min, we had mind-blowing sex again and she was really high and tense, I had never felt such intense sex ever. The whole Sunday we had just sex, perhaps 5-6 times until evening when we both were dead!

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes, I orgasmed each time. She had orgasms also, she was screaming to fuck her more and for me to not finish.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? There was no discussion, we just used condoms all the time.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Pure mutual attraction. we were both high ranked professional and that was the key.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? not at all

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Oh, that is something else: We had sex all Sunday and Monday, but I had a girlfriend at that time and was serious about her. She was coming to my town to go for a vacation on Wednesday. So basically I did not return Amanda’s call after Monday. I told her I was out of town and I think she suspected I was with someone else also.

After I came back in 10 days, I called her and met her in the city. She was very disappointed as she was seriously looking for someone in her level and had thought I was a suitable guy. Well, sorry but I was taken at that time. That was the last time I saw her. Two years ago, I sent her an email but she did not answer as expected.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody, perhaps one close friend but not in detail also. He knows how nasty I could be, so no surprise!

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, for both of us.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not at all! That was 2 days of ongoing sex for someone very sexy, smart and charming.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? She was/is a powerful educated girl and this is absolute turn on for me. That was the best to have such unexpected sex with her.

The worst was timing: if I were single at the time, I would have definitely stayed with her. I eventually broke-up also with my girlfriend at that time (after 2 more years) which has been the biggest loss also. I wish to meet Amanda now, I am more aware of how great choice she was.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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