What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Venice Beach
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? sex tourist
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I’m a switch
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 50
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Crack Head, I Love You

How long ago did this hookup happen? 30 yrs

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Paid sex

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? M. was about 35 yrs old, moved to Venice Beach from the San Fernando Valley. Was very honest, forthright and professional. She gave up a ranch house, husband, and two kids to become a crack head. There was no shame in her game. She was a streetwalker.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Met her for several dates. If I saw her when I was curb crawling, I would definitely hit her up. Never any planning, just spur of the moment.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I saw M. near Rose st. She hopped into my car and we were off. One small snag though, M. informed me that her motor was broke down. What to do? She offered oral. I said that usually doesn’t take me all the way home. She said not to worry. Remember she is very forthright and confident. Here she said “put your cash on the dash a discount of course for reduced services rendered. Now you must agree when the job is done, the cash is mine and I’m free to leave. You see I’m jonesing for a rock. Of course, I will stay with you for a decent comedown period. Now, I just wanted to get all of that clear and get your consent to what is going down. I gave the affirmative. She said let’s get started. to which I replied, “M. I remind you……………..” I was unable to finish my sentence. The deed was done! How she did it I do not know. I did not have enough time to even gasp. Quickest nut I ever had??????

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? No

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I knew that I got what I came to get. I got this story.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, To cheer myself up

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Crack

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody, I led a double life.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Never had such a ride as good but quick, before or after. I found myself instantly in a first time experience when I did not see it coming. It hit me like a train.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Damn, I would have paid her 5x as much if only she could have conveyed to me how she did it and possibly teach another friend of mine what her secret method was.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It reminded me that you can get d some very enjoyable surprises when you hook into one of the most complicated and interesting things in the known universe, (Her mind).

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It has given me a broad range of experiences.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Love it.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!