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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 54
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? IT
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? None
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 15
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Craigslist Cunnilingus

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6.5 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I placed an ad on Craiglist in the “casual” section proudly proclaiming my pussy eating abilities and how I’d love to demonstrate for a woman. She was a young (twenties), slender Indian woman with a nice butt and smallish boobs, long straight, black hair – quite attractive. Not sure what she saw in my chubbyish old white guy looks, but I’ll take it. She emailed then we texted a bit and had one phone call to confirm her address so I could travel to her (about 30 minutes away).

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I showed up at her apartment and she let me in. We said hello and shook hands. We both instigated this hookup.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We immediately went into her bedroom and took our clothes off. She laid on the bed and told me that she wanted me to eat her pussy, but not to insert any fingers and to not stick my tongue inside her. She said she might reciprocate, but might not, and if I was OK with that, then I could eat her pussy. I laid between her legs and ate her for about 10 minutes playing with her breasts with my hands, and she came 2 or 3 times, writhing around quite a lot in the process. I got a bit carried away and instinctively stuck my tongue and one finger in her vagina a couple of times, which she would brush away with her hand. After she came for the last time, she abruptly got up off the bed and said thank you, making it obvious we were done. I got dressed and left, not even caring that she didn’t reciprocate….it was such a hot experience. I’m not even sure if I got hard while I was eating her.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I thoroughly enjoyed the experience and hoped it could happen again some day. I had no expectations or feelings for her, as this was an extremely casual hookup with a stranger.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Have never told anyone about this hookup.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was very exciting. Getting to enjoy her spectacular body.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I had to drive for about 30 minutes to get to her location, but how cares!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex has a place in one’s life at certain points in your life.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s an interesting sociological experiment, documenting casual sex in many ways. The stories are fun and exciting.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!