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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 52
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Peoria, IL
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? engineering
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? One year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Experimental

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We met on Craigslist. I responded to his ad the said he was married and bi, looking for married couples seeking an extra guy. I was looking for an opportunity to do something I’d never done before (i.e suck a cock). Honestly, I’m not gay and I don’t find guys sexually alluring. But for many years I’ve been on the receiving end of blowjobs from my wife. She LOVES giving head. I love GETTING head, but after all this time I wondered, “What’s the big deal”?!
The guy and I exchanged several emails and when I told him I was interested in sucking my first cock, he was really interested. He was a married guy, mid 40s, with a couple of kids (he coached baseball, etc). Basically a really regular guy. Though the emails, I was able to determine (correctly, it turned out) that he was a very reasonable guy. He and I live 30 miles apart, and we both have complicated schedules, so it was difficult to setup a meeting. After a few weeks (and several emails), I agreed to meet him in his town.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We both instigated the meeting and finally found a day that worked. I met him early in the morning in a Menards parking lot. From there we drove to an abandoned farm where we’d have some privacy. My first impression of him was very good. He was not the least bit strange or aggressive. He was very clean and very well mannered. If I’m only going to suck one dick, I want to at least have some respect for the guy, and I want him to be clean. So far, so good.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was very nervous! I was there for one reason to have a cock in my mouth. But I hadn’t thought too much about the transition from “Hello, how are you?” to having his cock pressed against my lips.
He was very considerate and patient, and while we sat on his tailgate, he encouraged me to touch his semi-hard cock through his sweatpants. After a minute or so, I asked if I could see his cock, and he enthusiastically pulled his pants off. His cock and balls were totally shaven and his cock was getting harder. I hopped off the back of the tailgate and stood between his legs. I held his cock in my hands and was immediately surprised by how warm it was! I stroked it gently a few times and then I started to lick his cock up and down. Then finally I put the head of his cock between my lips. I did to him exactly what my wife does to me. I swirled my tongue around the head of his cock, and occasionally took more of his cock into my mouth, only to come back out and lick and nibble on him. What I was doing seemed to be working. His breathing changed, and at one point, I had to pull away or he was going to cum too fast.
I went back down on him and this time I was determined to make him cum. I wanted to hold his cock in my mouth and tease him until he squirted on my tongue. I rolled my tongue over his cock head, and licked lightly underneath the head, and he pushed his hips towards me. He warned me that he was going to cum, and I braced myself for whatever was going to happen. His warm, hard cock pulsed several times in my mouth while I continued to press my tongue against him. I was surprised that I barely tasted or felt the cum in my mouth.
His orgasm ceased, and I pulled away. I had no idea what to do. Initially, I was interested in swallowing his cum, but at this point I had lost interest. He saw from the look on my face that I was troubled about the decision I had to make, and he encouraged me to spit it out. I walked out of his view and spit his cum into the grass. When I walked back over to him, he asked if I was horny. I wasn’t. I just wanted to leave. He seemed very satisfied, and I was very satisfied that I’d found a perfectly normal guy who made me comfortable while I sucked his cock.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We exchanged a few emails. He was very interested in meeting again, but I had a hard time saying no. About 6 months later, he and I met at the same place on a Sunday morning. I was horny and wanted to try it again, but as soon as we were in his secluded place, I lost interest. My interest vanished. I asked him to jack off for me, and we parted ways. He was still very polite, but I could tell he was disappointed. At this point, I have an open invitation to contact him.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I didn’t tell anyone (this written testimonial is my first confession!).

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I got to experience what I was seeking (i.e., cock sucking) with a guy I respected and trusted.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? There was no “worst” thing. However, I wish I could have been more relaxed!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The hookup changed my view of blowjobs. It took a lot of the mystery out of it for me. Cock sucking, whether it’s in a porno, in my fantasies, or hearing my wife talk about having a cock in her mouth before she met me, it’s not as arousing as it used to be for me. I found the experience to be very mechanical and not nearly as exciting as I expected. I am somewhat proud of myself for having the guts to seek out the experience, and I’m relieved that I found a reasonable guy to experiment with. After this experience, I am a lot more thankful for sex that occurs during intimacy with my wife.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? This hookup left me wondering what a hookup with an attractive woman would be like. That is, a hookup with a someone whose body was exciting to see, touch, taste, and feel. And most of all, how exciting it would be to hear a woman cum as I was going down on her.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is still a favorite fantasy. I would really like to try a casual hookup with a woman I enjoyed being with.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I don’t know anything about it.

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