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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Santa Cruz
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Database Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I mostly like girls
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 200
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We had actually met on Craigslist and started instant messenger eavhother from there. We had been talking for a couple months about hooking up. He seemed more reserved than me and more serious. He wasn’t into phone sex or sexting at all. He said that he had a big dick and was a top. I like bottoming occasionally because it feels really good but only on a physical level. I don’t really enjoy kissing or being affectionate with men. Its hard to find semi normal, not irresponsible guys who want to hook top.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We texted late at night randomly and decided to meet. He said he could host. We met out on the street and walked to his house, he said to be quiet because he was renting a granny unit. We walked thru a gate behind a house and into his studio. It was nice, looked a student’s house. He layed down and pulled his sweats down. His dick was really big. I started playing with it until he got hard. I wanted to use a condom even tho I was certain this guy was clean so I tried to put one on him. It was funny because the condom was a small size one and it squeezed his dick and barely fit, we decided to take it off.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? With laying down I tried to get on top and put his dick in my ass. It was too big. I am used to putting big toys in there but this just seemed so hard. So I was squatting on it with the head pushing into me, trying to get it in, I started shaking and just couldn’t get it in. I finally got it in but maybe it was the position or something, it was too intense so I asked to try it from behind. I got into a position on my hands and knees with my knees together and butt exposed for him and spread my cheeks. He started penetrating me and it felt better like this. Part of it was the position and part of it was that he was just doing it so I had to take it. The feeling was so intense, he was going deep, my dick got totally soft and had a steady stream of precum oozing out. It felt good but also hurt, it was like the feeling from my ass was overriding my dick, I kept trying to play with myself but it was no use cause I was so soft, yet almost on the edge of climaxing. During this we could hear the occupants of the main house standing outside, basically very close to us, it seemed as though they knew what was going on. This made the experience slightly less enjoyable. I was overwhelmed and asked him to stop so he laid back and jacked off while I watched. Then I got dressed and left.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I walked home, it was pretty close. I liked thinking about how stretched out my butt was and regretted not having him cum inside me. At the same time I wanted to curl up in a ball and recover.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I never told anyone about it.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being able to take such a big dick successfully with no warm up

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? The neighbors

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t know

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I enjoyed it with a stranger quite a bit.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s fun, and hot.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!

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