What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 28
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Texas
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Small Business Owner
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
A Crazy Night with Molly
How long ago did this hookup happen? 8 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? My best friend and roommate at the time (let’s call him Z) we had been friends for 2 years and roommates for a couple of months when this happened. He was like 5’11” with long brown hair, and as I would find out later, a really thick 8″ cock. Nothing sexual had ever happened between us before this night. We had been having roommate fights but nothing serious, but mostly we were just partying and doing a lot of drugs at the time since we were both servers and also going to school.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started in our living room. It was me, Z, and his girlfriend/fuck buddy at the time. If you want to say something led to it, we had done a shit ton of Molly. No planning, straight up spontaneous. I guess you could say I instigated but he took it further. We were sitting in the living room and I started rubbing his shoulders and so we started a “massage train”. I was in the back rubbing his shoulders and she was in front of him. I was rolling balls and just rubbing my hands over his shoulders, back and chest when I started moving my hands down. I remember he was wearing sweatpants and my hand brushed against his hard cock. Just fucking around with him I grabbed it through his pants and gave it a squeeze, thinking nothing of it. He moaned so softly and like scooted his body toward my hand like he wanted me to do it again. So I kept rubbing him and then I looked over his shoulder and saw his hard cock sticking straight up through his pants. Mind you, this whole time his girl has no idea what’s going. So I reached under his pants and grabbed his cock and just wrapped my hand around it. I’ll never forget being amazed at how thick his dick was, it was the first cock I’d ever touched besides my own. For like the next 15 minutes I jacked him off because a) I was curious, b) I was rolling, and c) he was really into it. The next thing I know we are standing up and going to my room, with him telling his girl we needed to talk about “roommate stuff”
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I walk into my bedroom and he’s sitting on the end of my bed. As I close the door, he looks at me and says, “what do you want to do?” Without thinking I told him I wanted his cock in my mouth. I think he was excited he didn’t have to say out loud what he wanted lol he starts taking his clothes off until he’s sitting on the end of my bed completely naked with his thick hard 8″ cock pointing straight up in the air. I got down on my knees in front of him and he looks at me and told me he wanted to cum in my mouth. I was so fucked up I didn’t even care and said sure. I had never done anything remotely gay before, but for some reason i honestly didn’t even give a fuck. To this day, I don’t even consider myself gay. He’s the only person I’ve even considered doing stuff with. Is it possible to be gay with only one person of the same sex? lol anyways back to the story… I sucked on his cock and just tried to do everything id ever wished a chick would do when she was sucking my cock. I deep throated him, I sucked his balls, licked his entire shaft. Whatever he wanted, I was fucking game. I remember him standing up at one point so he was standing over me completely naked, I’m on my knees with his cock all the way down my throat. He told me that this was the best head he’d ever gotten (drugs!) and that he was going to cum. True to my word I didn’t back away but stuck his whole cock down my throat. He came hard but honestly it was so far down my throat I didn’t even taste it. Before we could go any further we both realized L was still out in the living room and that my door had been unlocked the whole time! So we threw our clothes on and went back out there. To this day I still don’t think she ever knew.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We talked about it the next day, there were no hard feelings we kinda just chalked it up to the drugs. Since that day tho, I have always had a thing for his cock. We have gotten fucked up and I’ve sucked him off prolly a half dozen more times over the years. I’ve also sucked his cock while we were messing around with his ex and my current girl.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish, MDMA, ecstasy, molly, Prescription sedatives (Valium, Xanax, Diazepam, Quaaludes, Phenobarbital)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told my girlfriend this story, but never in this much detail. I honestly just felt like sharing it because it’s still something we talk about in our friendship and only he, his ex, and my girl know about it.
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was cool to say I experimented. I’ve never wanted to lead a boring life, and that year of my life I broadened my horizons in so many ways. Some of them trivial, some of them lessons I still take with me today.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I feel bad that his girl didn’t know, but they broke up 2 weeks later, so it wasn’t ultimately a big deal.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It makes me think a lot about the fluidity of sexuality. I’m sure people read this and think I’m gay. I have a girlfriend and a son. Z’s the only guy I’ve ever messed around with. Im not weirded out by the term bisexual, but I feel like that’s unfair to people who are attracted to both sexes. I like women, and then him lol I honestly find it a little strange myself he’s the only guy I could envision having oral/anal sex with.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
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