by MM

Gender: Female
Age: 33
Race/ethnicity: Latin
Current location: Peru
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
Occupation: Designer
Relationship status: In a relationship
Religious affiliation: Catholic
How religious are you? Somewhat
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Crazy Story

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He is what you can call a “bad boy”, drummer, talker, and not so good looking, but with a “thing” that makes you feel atracted to him. I barely knew him before, he were involved with a girl of my university, and we talked a few times on the university.  I thought he was a nice guy, a little bit crazy, but really nice.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started after a birthday party at his place.  I was with a girl friend and he started to flirt with me.  It ended with sex and after that he started to call me once a month to see each other on his apartment.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was a regular sexual behavior, without any special things, we didnpt tryed anything or something. First times it was exciting. I never did something like that before so it was nice. When we were together he was very kind, he was such agood lover.  We used to talk about music, movies, places, travels.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yes!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condom and oral pills.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Having a different experience. I was involved in longterm relationships before and this was like a nice break from that.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? First time yes, we were drinking but we were not intoxicated.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I am now on a serious relationship, and he also is seeing someone.  We don´t live on the same country so we use to talk by whatsapp.  I have no expectations.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Some friends, some of them just gave me advice: stop it or your gonna get hurt.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes of course.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, I don´t

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I thing the best thing was that I experienced a different way to be with someone, without thinking about the future, or expect something from him.. We were just having a nice time with out hurting each other.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

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