What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 32
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Kuala Lumpur
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? IT
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Muslim
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Very sexual active
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 24
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
Crazy Weekend Sex With FWB
How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Z is a chinese girl and working at the same place as i am. We met on the elevator and frequently meet during lunch. I find her super attractive with huge boobs. Chinese girls are not known to have huge boobs but this is exception.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We agreed to meet for lunch and get to know each other. One thing lead to another, we became FWB and have been fucking our brains out since past 8 months. She is very reserved kind of person, but when she is naked, omg, she is like a sex predator. Our record was fucking up to 15 times in one weekend. She never have enough and wanted more.
We stopped seeing each other this year since her company closed down and she found a job in another city (Ipoh) abt 2 hours from my city (KL).
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Well, last week, she contacted me, asking to stay at my place as her company is sending her to Vietnam. We took 1 week to organize fucking session over the weekend and both of us are equally excited. She never let me cum inside her, but this time, she told me I can fuck her as many times as I want and cum inside.
The day finally came and I eagerly picked her up from the bus terminal. We skipped dinner and went back to my place. Inside my car, she began playing with my dick, touching it from my pants. My hands were roaming around her boobs. I could see she was wearing a very sexy lingerie through her thin clothes. Then she took it out and gave me bj until we reach my place. As I live in a condo and parked at multi-level parking, we wasted no time and began fucking inside my car. She hadn’t had a dick for past half year, so it is nice to pump. I didn’t even bother to undress her as i just tore a hole in her panty and began fucking her doggie until I almost came. She told me to unload into her pussy, which I did and it was very satisfying as this is my first time cumming in her pussy.
Once done, we went up and she gave me a great bj. I got hard and fucked her again in various positions. It was one of the craziest sex session we ever had, and each time, I cummed inside her.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We fucked the whole night until morning around 6am. By then, her pussy was red and sore. Was pretty rough when fingering her and tried putting 3-4 fingers inside. Even fucked her with a giant dildo which I bought for her. Omg, she can really scream.
We took shower, fucked again for a while. Didn’t cum as I had unloaded everything the night before. Got dressed and sent her to the airport. She gave a bj for me until we are about to reach the airport.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Fertility awareness (days counting, temperature)
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Told my buddy who knew her, he told me we shd get married. I think this is not possible as she is a chinese and i am a muslim. Marriage was never on our mind anyway. We just enjoy fucking each other.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having a 27 years old Chinese girl as FWB, her sexual appetite matches me.
She taught me how to fuck a girl and she is always horny.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Feel sorry for her pussy, really – fingered and fucked her tight pussy like crazy.
I know we are not going to get married, sorry to her future husband, I have used her pussy to the max.
Now even cumming inside her.
The worst thing – I had to lie to my fiance that I was busy working instead of seeing her.
She initiated sex but I was too tired
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Chinese girls are great fuck. They are super horny.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Chinese girls normally do not shave. It is not pleasant to lick her pussy with all those bushy hair.
Anyway, shaved for her and now she gotta find some excuses when her bf ask about it.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? People should just mind their own business. People in Malaysia are judgmental, so we tend to avoid going out or dining together. Casual sex is great and improves our lives. We don’t intention to ending this anytime soon but we do know somehow, we got to end it before our respective partner finds out.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is great to read and find like minded ppl. It gives us inspiration of where and what to do next, if we have the opportunity.
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