What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 25
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? South America
What country and/or city do you live in? Dominican Republic
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Cruising In Madrid
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago from day of posting
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Cruising
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a muscular and well built Mexican guy with big arms. We didn’t know each other and haven’t hooked up before. I met him while walking down the street in Madrid when out gazes crossed. Didn’t know him before the hook up so didn’t feel anything for him.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It started off with me walking down one of the main avenues in Madrid. I was going back to my hotel from breakfast when I see a bunch of people walking towards me and there was a particular guy who was wearing black joggers, white tank and glasses and both our gazes crossed so after walking past each other I turned back within five seconds and he did as well, so stopped at the corner. I started asking myself if he was waiting for me until it took me about two minutes to realize he was, since I was wearing mirrored sunglasses but apparently he saw my face pointing right to his, so I realized he noticed and I walked there.
I went and said hi to him, we talked, he told me he was coming from the gym and visiting the city as well, we both spoke the same language. We talked about the places we’ve been before and shared experiences. He commented on my chest, arms, legs and butt (which are my bigger muscles) and so I complemented him on his entire body. We kept talking and smiling. At one point he touched my nipples and I loved and thought I would invite him over but I was staying with a straight friend, so we walked to his place.
There was no planning involved at all, everything happened as we talked. I was looking forward him inviting me cause I didn’t want to miss the oportunity of hooking up with such a hunk.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to his place and he started getting comfortable but not removing his clothes, so he asked me to come closer to the bed. I did and we started kissing, and as a kissing fanatic he was one of the best kissers I have experienced. We started taking our clothes off and just had out underwear on, until he decided he wanted to be sucked, which I gladly did but then he wouldn’t return the favor, which sucked a bit since I have a big cock and love being sucked. We kept going and going until our actions led us to find out we were two tops hooking up, and there wasn’t much he was willing to give up on so we ended up jerking off together and cumming over each other.
At the end we were making out in the shower and touching our cocks mutually because we were still attracted to each other.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I just walked back to my hotel. I felt good since I shared it with my boyfriend and he thinks it was hot. No expectations, he gave me a name but I am not looking to contact him or anything. No feelings about him but I enjoyed the experience.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, I don’t know if my partner was on any (other) method, No penetrative sex happened
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My boyfriend and one friend
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How we picked up by walking down a crowded street and how good we both looked together naked.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? We were both tops.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I like it more now.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No more.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I like when people have casual sex and can pick up partners from casual moments, as long as both agreed to do it.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I like the way people expose their stories.
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