What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 20
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Charleston, SC
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25-30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? none
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? I had a long distance girlfriend.
How would you best classify this hookup? Sex with an ex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had been hooking up with “Brittany” for about 2 months last year. Her roommate, “Nichole” was dating mine and we met at a party one night. It started out with her doing my bio hw and me doing her French hw. I was in a weird spot as far as relationships were concerned, and we agreed that we wanted to keep things casual. We had a good thing going, but she told me that she was starting to get feelings for me which I wasn’t ready for. I know that I hurt her, and it was the first time I’ve actually rejected anybody who said they love me. It’s not a good feeling, but it was the right call. I’m bad at monogamy.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After turning her down in the spring I didn’t see her outside of a few awkward run ins. During the summer I got a girlfriend, but she lives on the West coast and we did our best not to acknowledge that we’d probably be hooking up with other people. When I got back to school I saw Brittany out at the bars one night. We were both really drunk and having our first “real” conversation since we stopped hooking up. She was pretty emotional and I was really horny, and before I knew it we were walking back to her apartment complex.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? For some reason, we kept talking about fucking in the shower.
When we got into her apartment we started making out in the living room and got naked right there before jumping into the shower. We were fucking doggystyle for about a minute when the shower curtain gets ripped back. Being balls deep inside of a girl in the shower, obviously I pulled the curtain back, only for it to get pulled over again. Now I’m staring at a dude with brass knuckles and a pit bull.
“Who the fuck are you?” I said.
“What the fuck are you doing in my house?” was the response, at which point Brittany realized that we were not in her apartment. We then ran straight out of the room, both of us still naked and wet and into the hallway. Unfortunately, without a key the elevator in that building only goes down, and the stair case was locked. We were too drunk to realize it, but the next thing I know we’re both standing in the lobby ass naked. It took us about 15 minutes to break into her place, and I’m still amazed that we didn’t get arrested or nobody walked in during that time.
We then go straight to her bed and start having raunchy sex until Nichole (who kinda hates me) walks in.
I also forgot to mention that her bed is in the really big living room and divided by a curtain.
So Nichole and my old roommate walk in, she starts bitching at me to get the fuck out. Normally I would’ve been happy to oblige, but my clothes, phone and keys were downstairs and I wasn’t about to knock on that guy with the brass knuckle’s door at 330 in the morning. So naturally I tell Nichole to fuck off, which she does, and we get back to it.
The sex lasted at least an hour and got progressively weirder.
A little while into it, Brittany started crying and telling me how much she’d cared about me. When I stopped to give my best shitty explanation of why I didn’t want to date her, she got on top and started riding me, still crying. She started telling me that she couldn’t feel anything anymore, so she wanted pain just to remind her senses of what they weren’t doing.
She told me to choke her, which I apparently wasn’t doing hard enough, so she asked me to hit her. I’ve got nothing wrong with a little bit of choking or spanking, but punching a girl in the face that I’m inside of who’s crying isn’t my kind of thing. But she kept insisting, so I gave her a few slaps which also weren’t hard enough. I told her to hit me instead, I could tell she wanted to. She slapped the shit out of me, like four or five times.
She probably would’ve thrown a few punches if I didn’t turn her over and start going doggystyle. That’s when she told me to fuck her in the ass. Being drunk and bruised, I was happy to oblige but there was no lube. I spat on her asshole and my dick, then tried to work it in, but too slowly for her. She told me to “shove it in, you pussy.” I went as deep as I could, and with every pump she gasped in what I can only assume was a mix of pain and pleasure (having never been fucked in the ass I can only assume it’s not very pleasant). By the time I came for the last time she was screaming.
We’d both had enough and passed out after that.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? That morning, I borrowed one of her t-shirts and a towel, went downstairs to the first apartment and grabbed all of our shit. That guy was cool about the whole thing. I went back up to get some particularly nasty words from Nichole, threw on my clothes and went home.
At about 5pm that day, Brittany texted me saying that “what happened last night was not ok,” and her explanation of why it wasn’t. It really made me feel like a dick, and the only response I could think of basically amounted to “I’m sorry I made you hate me, there’s plenty of fish in the sea.”
I talked to Nichole’s boyfriend later that day who told me her neck was pretty bruised and that they heard just about everything from the next room.
She’s a good person and I really screwed her over. It’s not a good feeling, and to be honest I’m pretty sure what happened was borderline date rape. We were both really fucked up, but she was definitely more than me.
I fucked with her head a lot, and knowing that I’ve had such a negative impact on another person’s life still makes me feel like an asshole 3 months later.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Cocaine
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I’ve told some of my friends, and obviously my old roommate who heard everything. I got a lot of laughs about the whole shower thing, that was pretty much it.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative
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