Current location: New Zealand
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: Attached
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Straight/curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 day ago
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Arranged meet
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Guy I met online – we’d chatted in the past but nothing came of it. Recently I went back online and made contact again by chance. He was quite a bit older than myself, but seemed like a nice guy, and was also ‘straight-but-curious’, having been in MMF situations before but never playing directly with guys.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Having talked in the past, we were able to make arrangements to meet pretty quickly without having to go through the whole ‘getting to know you’ process.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Being divorced with kids at school during the day meant that he was able to host at his house.
I turned up to his house about midday, pretty nervous but excited because it was something I’d wanted to try for a while but had never followed through with. Knocked on the door, he greeted me and welcomed me in. We stood around talking for about half an hour, about random guy stuff, our own past swinger experiences, then eventually (while assuring each other neither of us was gay lol) outlined what we wanted to do with a guy and why.
At this point he invited me to his bedroom. I followed, got to the room where we awkwardly undressed. We had similar builds, cocks (he was a bit bigger), and personalities.
We played with each other’s cocks a bit, then took turns sucking each other. He came in my mouth (which I had wanted to try), and he jacked me off, before we both got dressed, shook hands and I left.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? Yep both
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? none, but rinsed mouth pretty well with pretty strong iodine mouthwash when I got home and had a HOT shower with a lot of soap LOL
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Curiosity – I identified as straight, and still do, but have always been curious about playing with a guy, just for the experience of it, and to test my own sexuality I guess.
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? no
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? To be honest, I appreciate the experience and had fun, but don’t think that playing with guys is something that I would go back to again, as I just didn’t get the thrill of being with a guy that I do with girls. The build up was more fun, but the reality was a bit boring really
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? no one
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? consensual
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? don’t regret it – just wish I’d done it sooner to get it out of my system and have a better understanding of that aspect of myself earlier.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best part – the build up and then the personal satisfaction of going through with it rather than chickening out.
Worst – getting home and thinking ‘damn, probably shouldn’t have taken that cumshot..!’. (even though I didn’t swallow)
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Found it interesting to experiment and test my sexuality. I do find it interesting that I didn’t feel uncomfortable or weirded out at any point – but in a weird way, in my mind I feel stronger about my attraction to girls/lack of attraction to guys now than before I went off and sucked cock!
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