Current location: Ireland
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Relationship status: In a relationship
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
How long ago did this hookup happen? Last month
How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One-night-stand
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was in my boyfriend’s class in school and we’re in the same college. I’d seen him around before and I’d had a huge crush on him in the weeks before it happened (when I found out that we were in the same place). We go to Improv class together. He’s slim with cute, devilish features, a nice smile and light brown hair. We’d never hooked up before.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We bumped into each other when my friend and I were walking home. The three of us went into my friends house to smoke some joints, and we sat outside on a wall. I shuffled next to him and asked to blow smoke into his mouth. We leaned in closer together and I decided to kiss him. We started making out before he had to exhale. Later on we made out while my friend was getting a glass of water and decided to go back to my room to take things further.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We did nearly everything (he’s sexually experienced and quite adventurous). We had vaginal sex three times in lots of different positions and we did rough-play, bondage and he went down on me. He had a sexy “Daniel Cleaver-esque” voice and teased me by calling me a “little bitch” and a “nympho”. He was a great lover and asked me what my favourite positions were. I felt really comfortable and excited that someone so attractive and energetic was making love to me. He also tried to be funny (by putting on a farmer voice) which had mixed results. We had to finish because we ran out of condoms and afterwards we talked about philosophical bullshit.
Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? He came three times and I came once from fingering myself and him going down on me. (While he kept urging me to come into his mouth).
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I asked him if he was clean and he said he was and I refused to have sex without a condom even though I was very tempted.
What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I had a huge crush on him and was dying to bang him. I also thought- why the hell not?
Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Marijuana- we had about a joint each.
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I really like him and I still think about that night. I really want to fuck him again because he’s so good at it.
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told most of my close friends and my boyfriend. My friends weren’t that surprised and just told me not to develop feelings for him (too late!). My boyfriend accepts that I sleep with other people but he isn’t his biggest fan to say the least.
Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Very consensual and very wanted for both of us.
Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No but I wish I didn’t like him so much.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Best thing? I had a really fun night with a hot guy who brought up strong feelings in me that I don’t regret. The worst is knowing that those strong feelings are hard to erase.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
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