by Ana

Gender: Female
Age: 32
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: Tennessee
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Sales
Relationship status: Married
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Bi curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12-14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Cute Irish Boy

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last night

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Cute boy I met in a bar. I was out with my friend who I haven’t hung out with in awhile but we were both in need of some drinks and very open minded to any cute guys that might approach us.
We were at the 3-4th bar and I was pretty drunk. Saw a cute guy with short but thick dark hair, light eyes, really sexy toned and muscular but lean body, he was wearing a v neck and well fitting pants. So when he was standing near my stool I just kept sort of leaning back and bumping into him to get his attention and we started talking. He seemed like a funny cool normal guy. A few years younger than me.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Well we talked at the bar for a bit, he was there with his brother who my friend was into. The brothers had walked over to a group who was buying them drinks and my friend and I weren’t sure if they were into us so we actually left the bar. But I had second thoughts so I went back in to use the bathroom. Ran into the guy, let’s call him Shane, in the hall near the bathrooms. He asked where we went and said something about he thought I was sexy or hot, and I told him I thought he was sexy too. He said ‘you should kiss me’ so I leaned into him with his back against the wall and we deeply Frenched. He was like ‘I can’t believe that worked!’ (Sigh, college boys). So we went to another bar and made out a lot the whole time and he kept grabbing and squeezing my ass and eventually we all got a cab back to his brothers. Made out with me in his lap facing him the whole ride. He was a very good kisser, lots of tongue, some nibbling, it was a lot of build up.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? When we got to the house, we started playing pool, and he kept pulling me into the hallway to make out. Then he pulled me into the bathroom and things finally progressed. We got undressed and I dropped to my knees to give him head. He had a nice cock, at least 6-7 inches and the perfect thickness. I sucked him off a little and then leaned over the sink so he could fuck me from behind. He seemed to love my ass and squeezed it as he pounded me. He was a little bit of a jackhammer and without getting eaten out wasn’t as wet as I would have liked to have been. We didn’t finish that time. But later when my friend went upstairs with the brother, Shane pulled out a futon and we quickly stripped down and fucked again. Me on top, him on top, doggy style , spoon style. I still wasn’t super wet and eventually got annoyed with the condom and we got rid of it. He pounded away but I didn’t come. He ended up pulling out and jerking off and coming on my chest with a cute little moaning sound .

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I didn’t , he did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We started with a condom and then promised each other we were clean when we agreed to get rid of it

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Bored, wanted some strange, the guy was sexy and I get a confidence boost from hooking up.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Lots and lots of alcohol, we did hit a bong at one point too.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We passed out and I woke up feeling hungover and dehydrated and ready to leave (it was a house of college guys and it was pretty dirty and disgusting) I stumbled around upstairs finding my friend and Shane gave us a ride back to her car. I got the vibe he wasn’t into exchanging contact info and didn’t see the point myself so just jumped out of the car when he parked. Found him on insta but debating whether I should follow him?

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Just my friend that I was with, our mutual friend who wasn’t able to come out with us who thought it was funny and wanted to hear about it. And I texted my best friend who lives far away and she didn’t say much except ‘don’t get the HIV.’

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Very

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Not really I just wish I had some lube or something so I could have came.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was making out with this sexy ass guy all night and being groped and enjoying his fit body.
The worst was his lack of eating me out/me not being wet. I didn’t even mind that he was one of those jack hammer types but that’s obviously better when you’re super wet.
I don’t think it’s changed much about how I feel about sexuality or myself. It’s like the third time I’ve cheated now and do think I need to start planning ending my marriage…

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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