What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 39
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Singapore
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Neurologist Surgeon
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Single, living life. Sharing casual intimacy with women.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 14
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 nights back
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a local Singaporean in her early 20’s, admitted in a single room ward at the hospital for mild brain surgery. She was assigned to me 3 days before. The surgery was successful no doubt. She was a beauty; tall, fit, matured, and I could see she was interested. She was a curious one.
On her final night, I was visiting my patients in the ward, and her family had left for the night. It was 11 pm. She needed assistance to go to the bathroom for her shower. I came to her aid and walked her into the bathroom. She was wearing the hospital gown with a split gap at her bum area. The gown split and I saw her bum in its full view, and I loved it.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was sudden. She was leaning on the sink and I placed my hand on her bum through the gap. She was restless and didn’t move, so I continue caressing gently. I turned her around my hands went under the gown and felt up from her thighs to her shoulders before I slowly pulled her lips to mine.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Sooner or later I sat her on the sink table and I was giving laps at her pussy which was shaved and smooth. She covered her mouth trying not to express sounds. Then I turned her over back to leaning on the counter, I proceeded to give her a couple of heads for about 20 minutes. She was lovely.
I let her to shower after that while I waited outside.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We kissed after her shower and she laid back on her bed. I visited one more time later in the night. I kissed her and stroked her thighs and she kissed back.
I discharged her the following day and got her number and her schedule. She was curious, but now she was interested.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Power / Dominance, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy/convenient
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Didn’t share with anyone.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It was sudden and I guess I was waiting for something like this to happen. She was good. New to the scene, but she coped well.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? It could have ended badly. It was a hospital for God’s sake.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Guess it hasn’t.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’d have it again with a different woman at a different time.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Guess it’s alright.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s alright.
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