What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? United States
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 44
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 2

Dad’s Weekend Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year ago

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Their names were Derrick and Joseph and they were Dads. It was Dad’s Weekend for a fraternity at my University, and me and some of my sorority sisters met up with some of our friends in that fraternity to drink and hang out and party. Derrick’s son introduced me to his Dad; I had met Joseph’s Dad through Joseph’s son a few minutes before. They seemed nice, but since they were at least twice my age so I wasn’t really thinking about trying to hook up with them. In all honesty, I was more interested in Derrick’s son. But they were both attractive, older men; I could see Derrick’s chest hair through his button up shirt and it was pretty hot.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We were at a local bar drinking with our friend group. A few of my friends went back home or back home with others guys and I found myself alone at the bar. I decided to leave since it was only about a 10 minute walk from my sorority house. Even though I was hammered, I figured I would be fine. I walked about a block when I heard someone call out my name. It was Derrick and he was with Joseph. They crossed the street and asked if I was okay; they said they were worried because I was alone and stumbling around. I slurred that I was fine, but they suggested I go back to their hotel where I could get some water, food, and then they would call me a cab back to my sorority house. I agreed and we walked the short way to the hotel.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We got to the hotel room and I sat down on the edge of one of the beds. Derrick sat next to me, put his arm around me, and handed me a class of water. Joseph went and sat in the desk chair across from us. I had a few sips of water when Derrick kissed me out of the blue. I was a little taken aback at first, but we eventually started to make out and he was feeling up my boobs. I was feeling up his chest when he unbuttoned and took off his shirt; he had a very hair chest and stomach which turns me on. I felt for his penis through his pants and then Derrick stood up, unbuckled his pants, and asked me to suck his dick. I put his flaccid penis in my mouth and began to give him a blowjob; at this point, Joseph stood up, walked over to us, and dropped his pants. I got Derrick hard and then began to suck Joseph. It took him a little while to get hard and I took turns giving them both head for a little bit. Derrick then laid me on the bed and climbed on top of me. He fucked me in the missionary position and after a few minutes, he started to grunt and I felt him cum inside me. He pulled out and Joseph got on top of me before I could think. He thrusted deep inside me for about five minutes and then I felt his cum spurt into me. He got off and then went down onto the other bed. I just laid there; completely naked, sweaty, and with both of their loads leaking out of me.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I woke up the next morning, naked, and with Derrick’s hard cock pressing into my back. Joseph was gone. He noticed I was awake and got back on top and slid himself in me before I knew what was happening. We had sex for a few minutes and then pulled out, told me to open my mouth, and shot his load onto my tits and mouth/face. He took me to the shower and we rinsed off together. He then took me to go get Plan B and then took me back to my sorority, dropping me off a block away so nobody would notice.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friend about it a few months after it happened. She was shocked, but she was more mad at the dads because I was really drunk and she thought they they were taking advantage of me.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Neutral

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? It just felt weird. I had never had sex with anybody that old before and I was incredibly drunk. If I wasn’t drunk, I’m not sure if I would have said yes.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It’s opened me up to more ideas and has made me realize that sex is ultimately just sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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