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What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Currently Mumbai
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Business leader
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (open)
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 24
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Damp Ending

How long ago did this hookup happen? 15 years ago

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Met her online when it was still the only thing available.. Israeli descent, she was in an open relationship…Very young, lactating mother.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Planned the meeting in an Indian restaurant. We had some expensive wine and started to get touchy. We started to make out right there in the restaurant.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was all hot and spontaneous. She was on medication and was not supposed to be drinking.. But hell, she was hot… I was driving and she made me finger her to an orgasm. Later, we went to a sex store. It was fun.. Then went bar hopping with more intense kissing in the bar. Got very hot and turned on. We went back to the car and she asked me to book a hotel. Right when I was about to, this sexy woman passed out in my car. She started mumbling about her husband’s cell number. Almost 1:30 am, I had to call her husband. The guy comes and takes her into his van, then warns me that if something had happened to her…Whoa, what a night.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I only wanted her to be okay.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex happened

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Somewhat

Why do you regret this hookup? All the build-up went for a toss.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The spontaneity when no planning is amazing and thrilling.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That this sexy woman had to pass out just before the act.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Casual sex with not much planning is wonderful.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Don’t get drunk if you are not supposed to. Try weed instead

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Amazing because the society shames it while secretly fucking people in their minds. The stigma needs to go

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Amazing site, wish people wrote about all the details about what they felt at the time of the hookup.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!