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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 84
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Pasadena
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? retired
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? straight
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10 or so
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Dark Night at the Beach

How long ago did this hookup happen? 44 years ago – 1974 – the height of the “sexual revolution”

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was in her mid-thirties and very cute. The kind of girl that you just want to put your arms around.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It happened after dinner, near the beach. It was a warm night and we decided to walk on the beach. On the way I suggested that she take off her underwear so we could fool around a little. I pulled into a gas station, and in her excitement over the what’s coming, she went into the men’s room by mistake. Soon a guy went in, and she came out screaming and holding her bra and panties in a panic from having this guy walk in on her. So the evening began on a fun note.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We wandered out on the dark beach with just a few other people around, mostly out of site. We stopped and made out a little. Then facing her I bent over sideways to put my hands around her waist on opposite sides.
I picked her up so her pussy came right into my face and started eating her. She gasped but then began to work to get my dick out while upside down.
After a few minutes of that fun we lay down in the sand so I could get inside her. The fucking was feeling awfully good when some guy got too close and tripped on my foot. We exchanged comments and he moved on, but the mood had past and we decided to head home to finish the up there.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? I don’t know

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We went at it back at her place then fell asleep, The next morning we screwed once more, then laughed about our exciting night on the beach.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I think I told some guys at work. They were impressed that their staid fellow worker should be so bold.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? the spontaneity, the goofiness of her experience disrobing in the men’s room, and finally, the excitement of screwing in the dark beach with others nearby

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? There was no worst

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? most of the the message is “Be spontaneous!, then do it.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’ve always wondered what that guy who found her half naked in the men’s room was thinking.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? this was the high point of my otherwise pretty boring sex life. I only wish I had more such adventures.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I never would have documented this story without it.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!