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by Küken

What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 21
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? Germany
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your occupation? student
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 8
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Dead Drunk Threesome

How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Two American guys. I know they were both a bit older than me. because they had told me that they had just finished with Uni. One of them was very good looking. He almost looked like a viking with his full blonde beard, long hair, hairy chest. Very tall and muscular guy.

The other man was much smaller, short brown hair, shaved.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This is a very embarrassing story that I try to forget but it still affects me even though this happened two years ago. My memory of events is a bit blurred because I was so drunk that night.

I was travelling Europe with a female friend. When this happened, we were hanging out one evening in a backpacker hostel. We started chatting with those two American guys mentioned above.

We were drinking beer and vodka with them, and also smoking a bit of weed. The viking guy really seemed to fancy me and started to flirt. I thought he was very hot but initially did not know how to act accordingly. I was sharing a room with my friend and I think he was sharing a room with his.

At some point he started touching me, and I was ok with that. I flirted back and ran my fingers through his dense chest hair, feeling the muscles underneath. The other guy tried to chat up my friend and failed. She realized what was going on and excused herself, going to bed. I kept on drinking with the two men.

The flirting got heavier and I ended up sitting on the viking guy”s lap. When I was already dead drunk, he suggested we should retreat to their room because it was already late and we should not annoy the other guests. I kind of understood what that implied but went along anyway.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? In the room, I sat on the bed with that viking guy and we continued drinking and making out. The smaller guy sat on his bed, drinking and watching us.

The viking guy did not seem to mind his friend being in the room with us and started to touch me everywhere. He went under my clothes and touched my boobs and my vagina. I kissed his hairy chest and felt for his penis. It seemed to be big and rock hard. When I did that, the guy pulled down his pants and asked me to give him a blowjob. I felt very embarrassed about this but went along because I was very drunk and wanted to have sex.

The viking guy did not seem to mind at all that his friend was watching us, he was indeed talking to him while he was being orally pleasured by me!
At some point the viking guy told me that he wanted to fuck me. So I took of my clothes. This again felt very embarrassing in front of the other guy. I still did it I guess because I thought that was the only way I would get sex that night.

The Viking guy licked my boobs and my vagina for a bit and then shoved his fat dick inside me. We changed position several times. I could see the other guy drinking vodka out of a bottle while watching us fuck.

When I was getting fucked doggy style, the other guy suddenly got up from his bed, pulled down his pants and stuck his penis next to my mouth. I guess I must have been a bit shocked and did not know what to do but then put it into my mouth anyway in order to appease him or something. I think I did it just to avoid the guy getting angry or disappointed for being rejected. I did not really like it to feel like I am in some porn film with a guy fucking me from behind while I am giving oral. I did it anyway.

When the viking was finished, he just let go off me and sat back on the other bed. The smaller guy asked me whether I would let him fuck me. I rolled on my back and spread my legs for him. He climbed on top and started fucking. After he was done with me, we still drank for a bit but I soon said good bye and left the room, going to sleep.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Somewhat

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I went to bed and felt very dizzy . I had a hangover the next day. The situation with my friend was more than just embarrassing. She resented me for having done what I did. She told me she had heard me moaning in the neighbouring room.

I had been so drunk that I could not remember whether the guys had used condoms, I thought that they had not. To be sure,I had to get the morning after pill. It made me feel sick for days. My friend complained that I was ruining our holidays with my stupidity.

The two men had just left when I was able to get up. I have never seen them again. I felt that I had been used. They obviously did not care about me a bit. That felt very harsh considering I had to take emergency contraception.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Plan B / Emergency contraception

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, To feel more desirable, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it

How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My female friend as described above.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively negative

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Very much

Why do you regret this hookup? I felt abused even though I consented. I gave in for social reasons. I did not really want to have sex with that other guy.
My friend resented me and I had cramps for two days.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I have to admit that I liked having sex with the viking guy.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? stomach cramps, emotional pain.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I learned that I should take better care of myself.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I still want to have casual sex, even though that one night was a bad experience.

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