What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60 years
What’s your race/ethnicity? Mixed / Multiracial
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Los Angeles
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Aircraft Mechanic
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Strong sexual man.
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20 or so!
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None!
Deedee’s First Time
How long ago did this hookup happen? 26 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a very petite little lady, we both knew right away, there was going to be a sexual encounter. So strong was the feeling, we had to experiment with each others feelings.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? That day, we were left by ourselves, and nervous that we’d be discovered. There were girly magazines laying around, with pictures of couples having sex. Deedee asked if I’d done those things, pictured in the books!?
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Suddenly Deedee approached me, and sat on my lap! She then said show me what you did to the women you had sex with. She started pressing me through my pants, I immediately got an erection. She felt my hardness and said, show me your penis! She unzipped my fly to expose my hardness. Reached me in her hand, and softly stroked me to a full erection. Then she lifted her short ruffled skirt and pulled down her white panties. Grab my penis and poked it into the entrance of her vagina. I began to ooze my pre-cum so that we were both slippery from the ooze. At first there wasn’t any real penetration, just letting the tip of my penis rest at the entrance of her pussy. She wiggled a bit and felt she wanted more than just pretend. I made her stop her advances, and placed her aside the bed. I lifted her skirt and removed the little panties she wore. I could see, she was already wet between her legs and her small petite vagina. So I then began to taste the cream that was oozing from her pussy. She moaned a bit, and said “eat my pussy baby!” I sank my face into the sweetness of her pussy, and stayed there until she started to shake her butt from me licking her vagina. All I could think of was the taste of the sweetness she oozed from her pussy. At that moment she began to moan a bit louder, saying, Don’t stop baby! I licked at her sweet ooze, until she started to come. Her vagina pulsed with such vibrations she squeeled like a little puppy. Sat up and moved back onto the bed breathing hard. Beads of sweat formed on her forehead. and then reached for her crotch, to lick the rest of her ooze from her own fingers. She smiled and kiss me on my cheek, said thank you for my first orgasm. You’re welcome baby girl. I said! we got dressed and held each other tight. Feeling how wonderful our love making had been.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We both had much more experinces with each others sexual encounters, which lasted for several years. after which we decided to move on to seek other relationships apart from the other. No hard feeling ever touched our minds and hearts. but forever remembered that first sexual encounter.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? A little bit
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? We spoke to no one about the affair. Both of us wanted the other and kept it secret.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Somewhat
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The surprising way that it began, curiosity, intense sexual want and desires. mutual feelings.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it had to end….
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not in the least!!
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Truly would like to experience the same thing, the same way, and not have it ever end!
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casually, can be rough on the heart, and feelings somewhat! overall the experience was wonderful!!
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Kind of warm to think of in terms of love and making love with that special person in ones life. After all God granted this sexual thing out of love, himself!
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