by Manda

Gender: Female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: USA
Highest education received: High school diploma
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: In a Relationship with a Girl
Religious affiliation: Past Baptist
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly gay/lesbian
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Desert Bonfire

How long ago did this hookup happen? Two weeks ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Ang on the evening of the bonfire.  She caught my attention right away, and she caught me staring at her when she lifted her arms up to stretch and I saw her boxers underneath her cargo shorts. She was strong and sexy, and confident too. She was a friend of one of my closest friend’s cousin, and we were from different schools. I had never even heard of her before, but I knew from our eye contact that she was into me too.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup began a couple of hours into the start of the bonfire. She was showing off to me in little ways- collecting large logs for the fire and cooking food on the grill. There was already a lot of sexual tension. Ang wanted to play me in beer pong and then later she challenged me to help her finish off what was left in the bottle of vodka. Then we left the group to ‘go to the bathroom’ together, and that’s where it all started to get physical.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? During the hookup Ang and I ended up in the field a little distance from the bonfire in the dark. It was beautiful to be alone with her and the stars. She kissed me and we tumbled to the grass. She unbuttoned my pants and started fingering me, and I was moaning A LOT. Eventually I rolled over so she was on the bottom, and I sucked her nipples and took off her shorts. I kissed her stomach and gave her oral. I wish I remember how she tasted but the alcohol did not allow me to keep that memory. Afterwards Ang told me to save it for someone I loved, which made me upset but she kissed me and held me tightly.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? No, neither of us did

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? None and we did not discuss history

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I wanted my first lesbian experience and Ang was very attractive to me.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Yes, alcohol and some weed. Two rounds of beer pong and about three shots each.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I begged Ang for her number, and I’m not embarrased to admit that. She didn’t give it to me that night, but she did the next morning. We still talk occasionally but we do live about two hours away from each other so we have not met again since. I still find her very attractive and I wouldn’t mind seeing her again.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my friends at the bonfire, who already knew in fact, and they thought it was hilarious. I also told my other good friend who is homophobic and she thinks what I did was disgusting.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Yes, for both

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No, I love the memory

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing was the buildup. I feel like I saw what I wanted and it became a reality. That was amazing. The worst part is that I was drunk and I wish I remembered more details.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? The next morning I had a large mouth shaped hickie on my inner thigh, and trailing red scratch marks along my back.

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