by Rocco

Gender: Male
Age: 48
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: California
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Occupation: Researcher
Relationship status: Attached
Religious affiliation: None
How religious are you? Not at all
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 81
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 6

Dessert First

How long ago did this hookup happen? 16 years ago

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a curvy, short brunette with wide hips and a cute face. We met through a website and then spoke on the phone a bit.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We agreed to meet at a local coffee shop, which was a bit nerve racking since we had not even seen pictures of each other (this was before smart phones and selfies).

When we met there was an instant attraction both ways even though it was also clear that we were both shy. Sensing an opportunity I decided to push the agenda and rather than engaging in chitchat I decided to see how quickly I could get her into bed, even though I hardly knew her at. After introducing ourselves I said “so you mentioned you were looking for a fling” she said “that’s right, when the time is right.” So I said “how about right now?” She seemed surprised by this at first, she paused and then smiled and stood up and said “okay, follow me”

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We went pack to her apartment. She game me a hasty tour and then we made a beeline for her bedroom and we immediately got naked. We kissed and hugged and I went down on her licking and caressing her to several orgasms, then she lay back and spread her legs and we fucked missionary style for quite a while. I got up and went to the adjacent bathroom to cleanup and washed the lube off of my cock. From the bedroom nearby she called out “hey would you like me to blow dry it?” So I came back and she gave me a fabulous blowjob and I wound up shooting my load all over her chest. We snuggled and then I went down on her again, and then we fucked again and got dressed.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? We both had several orgasms

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? We used condoms

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I felt horny

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? None

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? It was funny. After having fabulous sex as bSically complete strangers and being both totally spent and satisfied we decided to head out and grab dinner at a local Italian restaurant, and we actually had a great time getting acquainted. There was no tension about whether or not sex would be happening so we had a fun time. A week later we got together and had another delightful romp. Then when I called again a couple weeks later she was all apologetic. She said she should have called me and let me know she had met somebody else.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I did not discuss it.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? Consensual all around.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No regrets.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The sex was really fun. The worse thing was how it ended.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? It was interesting to realize that sometimes ladies really are just looking to get laid too.

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