What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 60
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? Florida
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Opportunist
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? Over a hundred or more
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? Several
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How long ago did this hookup happen? 40
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I met Darrell across the street were I lived, he helped push my car out of a snow bank. We exchanged names and I thanked him and drove away.
I was 18 and he was about 38 and an Architect. Good looking, and then so was I. A few days later he phoned me — got my number from the directory. He invited me to a party at his apartment, I said yes.
The day of the party, I took a friend, Jerry, with me. Jerry was a big heavy set, big ass, about 20 or so, but good looking.
The party turned out to be just him and his “roommate” and myself and Jerry.
It then occurred to me that Darrell was probably gay, as was his roomy. I was not “out” to Jerry, so that made me somewhat uncomfortable. I was not out to anybody, then nor now, except my sex partners.
Soon, the roomy had to leave as he worked nights. That left me, Darrell and Jerry.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We started talking and drinking heavily. Jerry was a person that drank a lot and could hold it, but I get drunk fast. After a while I was quite drunk, and Darrell said why don’t I lay down on his bed. It was a very wide bed, which I later found out was used for orgies. Which I did. He pulled my pants off.
Later, Darrell came in to see how I was, I woke up. He started to rub my back. He rolled me over and pulled my briefs off, said he was going to suck me off. Which he did. I then asked him to fuck me, which he did.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I went back to sleep. Later I woke up, felt the bed moving. It was starting to get light out. Darrell and Jerry were going to it. I just laid there and watched. Jerry screwed Darrell and then Darrell fucked Jerry. So when they were finished, Jerry rolled over on his stomach and started snoring. Darrell left and went to take a shower.
I was now horny, and Jerry’s naked butt crack looked good. I climb on top, put my cock in his hole and started pounding. Jerry woke up a little and said “again” and went back to sleep. As I was humping that juicy (from Darrell’s cum) ass, Darrell came back.
He waited until I was finished and pulled my face down and I then blew him. It took awhile since he had had a busy night.
Later, after lunch, I learned about why his bed was still wide. During the next round, Darrell, Jerry and the Roomy took turns with my butt.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Got to know Jerry better. And also Darrell & his Roomy, cannot remember his name.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? A few later
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Getting fucked
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No
I like new partners, when an opportunity presents its self, I would go for it.
As long as I am attracted to that person.
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? One night on my way home, ran into Darrell also on his way home. He invited me in, I told him that I had gotten off several times that day, not sure if I could do it again so soon. We tried for an hour, finally I got hard.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? All my stories are true. Have many more gay adventures. Then will tell my heterosexual fun.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting
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