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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 27
What’s your race/ethnicity? Southeast Asian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 27
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Doing the Dirty on My Sister’s Bed

How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually

How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Tall, well built, fair and quite good looking. I knew him from parties and was introduced by a mutual friend during a party. We texted each other a bit flirtatiously and then spoke on the phone a few times. We went to a couple of parties together and during one he even groped me. I could tell he was sexually attracted to me and I was also quite attracted to him — feeling was mutual.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We went to party and got a bit tipsy and danced a bit. He initiated contact and was anything but discreet with his hands copping more than a few feels while we were dancing. At first I wanted to pull away because I wanted him to try harder, but at this point, I hadn’t had sex in a while and so was a bit excited and let him have his fun. He got bolder after I did not protest or move his hands away. It would probably have stopped at that, but soon after he started grinding against me, and liked what he was packing. I was quite turned on and asked wanted this to move. We were both home for summer holidays and staying with our parents so that option was out. My pregnant sister and her husband lived a few blocks away and we went back there. At this point I wanted it bad and I could tell he did too. My sister and her husband were in the lounge watching a movie and we excused ourselves to ‘discuss something important’. My sister knew what was going on, but played the discreet elder sibling saying ‘my room is quiet’ 🙂 It was strange getting it on in my sister’s bed but at that point I was horny and drunk and my hookup was too turned on to care.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? As I had suspected he had a really big beautiful penis; thick, healthy, lots of girth and a purple bulbous head — picturebook really. I let him get me naked and play with my boobs (which he complimented highly, like a gentleman) and so by the time I got his jeans off, he was pitching quite a tent in his boxers. Until then I had never given a blowjob to a guy on the first date, but the minute I saw his bare penis, I just knew that I would take him in my mouth. At this point he was literally begging me to do so, and I complied. He said he loved girls who could deep-throat him, and although I failed in that pursuit (thick dick vs gag), I think I made him quite happy with the blowjob. He was moaning audibly throughout and soon enough I could feel him pulsating. He was very talkative and that turned me on. He pleaded with me to cum on me and I let him unload all over my boobs. At this point I was very wet and wanted to fuck, but lo and behold he did not have a rubber on him. I had to ruffle around my sister’s medicine cabinet to find one. I sucked him to get him hard again and then he went to V-Town 😉 Despite my relative promiscuity in my younger years I hadn’t ever had a dick as thick as that and I actually came from intercourse, quite a rarity for me. The sex was good and he was quite dominating which turned me on even more. He used his words well and clearly knew his way around a woman’s body. He came again soon after I finished and we had to quickly get dressed and go sit in the lounge with my sister and her husband, both of whom knew exactly what had gone on but pretended otherwise.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I actually felt quite powerful at having got him into bed. He was too much of a Casanova to consider future plans with but I definitely wanted to fuck him again — which I did on a couple of occasions over the summer, in increasingly risky surroundings. We fell out of touch after the summer but still talk sometimes. I think if we live in the same city, we could be potential fuck-buddies.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), To feel more confident, Power / Dominance, Submission / Relinquishing power

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My sister obviously, but also a couple of friends. They were surprised and some even jealous. Some people warned me about his reputation.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Mixed (Some positive, some negative)

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Sucking his penis and when he banged me doggy style on my sister’s bed

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to clean-up afterwards!

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? No

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great initiative

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