What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 36
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Disappointing Hookup with Work Friend

How long ago did this hookup happen? last week

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He’s a cute young guy at my work. Blonde. Blue eyes. Definitly works out. So out of my league, but he’d been flirting with me for months, which was insanely flattering.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I ran into him at a party on Christmas Eve. Didn’t know he was going to be there. I’d been drinking, and he turned on the charm.

I guess he instigated it, but I was really flattered by his advances – he had me turned on like crazy – so I let him take me back his place. Might as well take on the hot guy, I thought!

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? The minute we got to his place, things went south.

We had a drink and started making out on his couch. Then he just kind of whipped it out on me. I was like “well ok then,” but actually thought his assertiveness was kind of hot because I was pretty worked up and did go back for sex in the first place.

But then he started hinting he wanted head. Hinting lol. which I almost never do with new guys, but I went along with it. He kept putting his hand on the back of my head, which also killed the mood for me. I guess my turn off wasn’t showing because he came pretty fast, with almost no warning.

Now I’m not opposed to giving head, but it’s more like “here’s some forplay” than “go ahead and come and give me nothing,” when I do give it! That’s pretty much three strikes and you’re out in my book, so I had to keep my head down so he wouldn’t see how pissed I was. Lol.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Not at all

Did you have an orgasm? No, not even close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We smoked and then I told him I wasn’t feeling well so I could get out of there without him wanting sex.

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To feel more desirable

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My best friend. She consoled me. Then laughed her ass off.

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

Why do you regret this hookup? Can’t just never speak to him because we work together. Lol.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being chased by a hot younger man.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? He was 100% selfish and only wanted a blowjob.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? A little positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Fairly negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Don’t fool around with men who don’t care whether you come!

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