by

What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 75
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? General office / sales support
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Very
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Pussy-fucking cocksucker
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 5-6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Discovering I’m A Cocksucker

How long ago did this hookup happen? 55 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For more than 3 years

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Nice looking. He and I grew up in the same neighborhood. We were best friends and sometimes classmates.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? He and I were close sleep-over friends, dated girls at school, often privately teased each about our horny condition.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Not exactly a hookup but I’ll go along with the terminology. He had slept over with me a lot on weekends, sometimes slept naked, talked about girlfriends. He has a thick one and said his girlfriend always gags giving him bj. I’m straight and thought m/m bj is too queer (gay) but told him that a bj should be easy. He suddenly did a French kiss on me which made me angry but also aroused me so much I wanted to ‘get even’ by sucking him off to prove a bj should be easy. Didn’t like eating his cum but it strongly addicted me to the experience. (Both kept fucking girls some.)

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Both fell asleep naked as usual. Next morning both woke with the usual morning stiffy. Neither of us dared to mention the night before but I started sucking him off every time he slept over. Don’t like his cum but I was addicted to it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more confident, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Any guy, if they mention they have bisexual feelings

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Confirmed that m/m cocksucking isn’t just a gay thing.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Best friend forced me to kiss him.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sex is hot, the way God made it. Casual sex is a misnomer.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m straight, so previously I thought m/m cocksucking is queer. Accidentally discovered a heterosexual guy can enjoy another guy’s cock.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Most people are not either 100% hetero or 100% homo, and even bisexual is in wide-ranging degrees.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Excellent format that’s flexible and easy to use.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!