by JK

Gender: Male
Age: 44
Race/ethnicity: White
Current location: UK
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
Relationship status: Married
How religious are you? Not at all
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual

Disinhibition

How long ago did this hookup happen? 11 years

How would you best classify this hookup? Fling

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? As part of my training I had to attend international conferences. I first met her in in New York and we ended up dancing at the conference dinner. She was so sexy, slim, fit, blond with blue eyes and chic. We ended up kissing but then had to leave, but the spark was ignited.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? About 6 months later I was in Madrid in November and was delighted to find she was on the delegate list-heart missed a beat when I saw her. It was freezing and we all went for a walkabout. This was followed by evening dinner and I asked if she wanted go for a drink after, which we did, followed by heading to her hotel room. I think we both knew where it would lead.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It started as passionate kissing. I undressed her to her underwear, then removed her bra. I started to suck her nipples which immediately became erect. We were standing up and I was fully clothed. I slipped my fingers under her pants to hold her butt, then moved round to her vagina and I could feel her wet pubic hair. I ran my finger along her vagina, up and down, then fingered her for a couple of minutes as our kissing became more passionate. She put a leg up on the bed to let me finger her more deeply. I undressed and we both got into bed, my cock was now hard. 

I continue to lick her nipples then moved down to between her legs and found a thin seam of juice along her vaginal opening. I gently licked her, enjoying the sight of her trim unshaven pussy, tasting her, then I concentrated my tongue on her clitoris-lightly flicking it, Her breathing was quickening, and I could feel she was nearly there, so I reached up and ran the tip of my fingers round her arealoae then to the tips of her nipples as I continued to flick her clit with my tongue even faster-it tipped her over. Her breathing reached a crescendo, her back arched as she came and she gently pushed my head away as I watched her vagina start to spasm in quicker and quicker rhythms then slow down. We rested for a couple of minutes, and then came the most amazing bit for me.

I straddled her as we started kissing again. She reached between my legs and held my fully erect cock firmly in her hand. I sat up with her beneath me, and my knees either side of her abdomen. My cock was in full view to her as she firmly moved her hand from the base to the tip along its shaft, gradually increasing the frequency. I threw my head back to enjoy it and reached back to stroke her hairy pussy-she was soaking, as were the bedclothes beneath. She continued to jerk me off, faster and faster, I knew I was going to come. I looked down to see her smiling, her breasts puffy, her nipples erect and my cock the hardest it  had ever been, in her hand. As I came, I threw my head back and unloaded the most amount of cum I have ever, all over her breasts, and throat. I kept cumming as she continued to jerk me. I looked down to see her covered in cum as she smiled back.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? none, there was no intercourse

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? passion

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? a little alcohol

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? we continued our relationship for 18 months

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? nobody

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? consensual

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? no

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? how uninhibited we both were despite not knowing each other

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

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