What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 41
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Sydney
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Engineer
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 80+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Dogging fun and our watcher
How long ago did this hookup happen? 9 months ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Friends-with-benefits
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? An attractive BBW, beautiful eyes, hair and great boobs. We had chatted online for a while and met several times before and had oral and vaginal sex a few times.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We are very similar both have a naughty streak, we decided to go out to a local dogging spot. For those of you who do not know what dogging is, it is usually a couple who likes to put on a sex show while strangers watch and wank. Sometimes if there is an attraction the stranger might be invited to join in either touching or engaging in a sex act.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? My lady friend X and I visited a known dogging spot just after dark. There were quite a few cars mostly occupied by single guys. We drove around for a while parking in a few different spots. A car parked close to ours and we made it clear we were a couple. We then moved to a more secluded spot and the guy quickly followed. We got out of our car and walked maybe 75 meters to a seating bench that had adequate nearby lighting.
It was a nice warm night and X was wearing a dress with no panties and our watcher was standing maybe 25 meters away to my left. X and I made out for a bit then I dropped to my knees to eat her beautiful wet pussy. I looked to my left and our watcher was not there. I looked to my right and he was standing 1 meter away with his cock in his hand watching. I continued to eat and finger X’s pussy while our new friend wanked his cock. I asked him if he could hear how wet she was and he nodded his head with a big smile. I then said watch this and I pulled from my pocket large glass dildo that I had just purchased a few hours earlier. X was lying back with her eyes closed, unaware of my surprise purchase. I inserted the dildo in her wet pussy and pumped her hard and she groaned really loud. I was finding the dildo getting very slippery and was afraid I would drop it on the concrete my hands were wet from pussy juice.
Our watcher was wanking and shaking his head in disbelief. I thought at one stage his head was going to shake off and I continued to pump X’s pussy with the dildo and she was getting really loud but I didn’t care. She maintains she is not a squirter but she sprayed my face and I felt her pussy contract. I pocketed the tool and made her suck my cock which by this stage was already hard. I put on a condom and made her kneel on the bench and I fucked her behind. My cock slipped in with ease, our watcher was still there and he had moved position. I told him to come closer and moved my body so he could watch my glistening cock slide in and out of her wet pussy. Out of the corner of my eye, I saw a guy approaching on a bicycle with a Hi-vis vest and thought it might be a cop. I said, “shit! is that a cop?” And the three of us quickly tided ourselves up and sat on the seat where we had a quick chat and acted normal. The guy on the bike turned out to be some nosy idiot driving around in the dark ruining our fun.
We exchanged pseudo names with our watcher and mentioned a few websites before a crowd of people from a nearby club came to smoke at the picnic table. We walked back to the car where I showed X the dildo and she laughed as she could feel a different sensation. But she didn’t know what I was doing since she had her eyes closed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? No, but I was close
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt really good and we relived the scenario through online messaging. We are the best of friends and have many adventures.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Learning new things, experimenting, Its something we were wanting to do.
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Both of us have chatted to several people about this online and most react in a positive manner as to many dogging is a fantasy.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Being watched
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Being interrupted and not finishing
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It just added to the many experiences I already have had.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? My only wish was that I would have liked both myself and our watcher to blow our loads of her ass
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It’s something my lady friend and I both enjoy
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I love when like-minded people share their experiences
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