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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 58
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? England
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Accounts
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 4
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Doing what Hubby couldn’t

How long ago did this hookup happen? 6 months

What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I meet Anne in my local pub. She’s 52, slim with dark hair. She was always with her Husband who was older than her and not in good health. I fancied her but did nothing about it as she was married.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Her husband Stan started it. He asked me what I thought of Anne, I said she was attractive. Some time later he again asked me and this time added that Anne liked me. I had no idea what he was on about. Another time we met he mentioned he had problems in the bedroom area and that he and Anne had not had sex for nearly 2 years. He asked me if I would have sex with her as I was single. She said she wanted sex and fancied me. We arranged for me to call round to their home the following Monday morning.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I was very turned on and worried when I got their I was not sure if Stan was going to want to watch and I wasnt happy about that. As it was he announced he was going out for the morning and left soon after.
Anne and I kissed and went to the bedroom, I undressed her and then myself. I was rock hard and Anne was very wet, we lay on the bed and after some foreplay I entered her in the missonary position and started to screw her, she was very responsive and pushed hard back against me, I felt her tighten on me as she climaxed which she did twice as I rammed her harder and harder until I shot my load into her. After we lay together for about an hour she said she had been desperate for it. I then got hard again and I screwed her she came another two times, it took me longer to come this time as she was very wet now and I had cum only an hour and half before, but again I shot into her. We lay together after again and then cleaned up. I was in the kitchen having a coffee with her when Stan returned. He said he was pleased it all worked out. Anne was a bit quiet and after a talk we agreed we would get together again but nothing yet has happend

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I enjoyed myself and Anne needed it. However she loved Stan and I believe she felt guilty even though he was happy with it.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Only Stan

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Easy sex

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Too hurried

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Somewhat positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? It does not worry me

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Interesting project

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