What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Customer Service
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (open)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Compersion
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 10
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 1 year

What was your relationship status at the time? Engaged/Married (open)

How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This event involved my wife and her long-time guy friend with benefits. I knew them both for over 5 years when the hook up took place. My wife is a petite athletic type. He is a pretty average American white guy. Super chill personality. He and my wife had a sexual relationship for about 5 years before this event took place. We all had group sex once before this.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The hookup was planned about a week out. We planned for a Friday as an end of the week celebration. My wife and I instigated it. He was totally on board. The hook up began at our house. We planned for them to get things started while I was traveling home from work. They wanted to be warmed up by the time I got home.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I returned home. It was eerily quiet. I knew they were in our bedroom though. I started to set my things down and take off my shoes when my naked wife greets me. She implores me to join them in the bedroom. She takes my hand and leads me to the bedroom.

I walk in and our friend is naked in our bed. I start to undress. My wife lays down next to him and he begins to spoon her. As I undress, I take in the intimate sight. I enjoyed the comfort they had and their tenderness for each other. Obvious they had sex many, many times before.

I jump into bed with them. A lot of electricity between the three of us right out of the gate. We quickly move to our friend eating my wife’s pussy while I kiss her breasts and above. Spent some time taking in the image of our friend locked to her pussy.

The wife handed him a condom and he entered her, she took my cock into her mouth. That morphed in us guys laying next to each other so get could cock hop between us. She was completely energized by the power of having two guys fully erect for her pleasure to take. We did this for quite a while when we decided we were close to cumming.

We got in our final configuration. She was on top of me reverse cowgirl. Our friend took off his condom and positioned his cock in front of her face. She spent a little time grinding on me and sucking him. He eventually pulled out of her mouth and started stroking himself vigorously over her chest. All I could see from the angle was my wife’s back, his arm furiously moving and his face getting more and more tense. My wife was verbally begging for his cum. The build-up made me cum. He soon followed and let out a loud groan of relief.

My wife dismounted me. She turned around and I got the first time saw another man’s cum on her. The load was huge too. Looked like three guys, not one. Still one of my favorite visual memories. They went into the shower together to wash up and have a little post-coital unwind. I lounged around quite satisfied by our event and happy to give them a moment together.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After they got out of the shower, we all got dressed and went out to dinner. We enjoyed being in public together after all being nakedly intertwined minutes before.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s)

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I personally have never told anyone about this hookup. My wife told some of our mutual friends. They know my wife well and aren’t surprised by these things at all. They know she is nonmonogamous.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Seeing another man’s cum in my wife

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? That it hasn’t happened again yet 🙁

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? It made me realize how satisfying sex with my wife along with another man is. I am completely satisfied with sex with my wife only. My ideal arrangement is with another guy joining us though. I would be happy with that almost every day.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Our friend is an awesome guy. I’m always happy when he has a chance to have sex with my wife.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think more hetero couples should experiment with bringing another guy into the bedroom.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I enjoy the stories and learning.

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