by Brina
Gender: Female
Age: 18

Race/ethnicity: Black
Location: Atlanta
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
Occupation: N/A
Religious affiliation: N/A
How religious are you? Somewhat
What best describes your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? I love dicks not chicks
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

Don’t Wake Gma

How long ago did this hookup happen? Last Night

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? Fuck-buddies

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Lema is about  5`10 . He’s dark-skin, and was captain of our high school wrestling team. I was one of the wrestling mangers. I attended almost all the matches, because of Lema. He has amazing muscles, but the aren’t body builder big. At first I liked Lema, but then I realize that I just wanted to sleep with him. I was completely nervous and excited before the hookup.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I invited him to my house before, but it seem like there was always a block from us actually hooking up. I would sometimes have my period, or he would have to be somewhere. Luckily, last night he got to come over. I stayed downstairs, because I was actually at my parents house. I sneaked Lema through the back door. I checked around the house to make sure everyone was asleep. My grandmother was downstairs too, but her door was close.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? lol, we had “vaginal sex”. We didnt kiss on the lips. I guess because thats more personal maybe. I felt good while having sex on the coach. I was riding at first, but then we switch it up and went doggy-style. My boobs are pretty big, so it hurt bouncing up and down. He was pounding me. I loved it, but sadly no orgasm. He came before me and then I kept thinking my grandma might come out her room and catch me. When he came, he was like “nooo” and then he was like “I need another condom” I was like dang you only brought one. Then I said sorry, gave him a hug and escorted him out. It was pretty funny.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Condom

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was horny and wanted to do something bad.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Not at all

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Lol we hugged and was like lets do it again sometime. I ready to do it again. I think I might stock up on condoms too!

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My two bestfriends, they were like yes girl ! One of them actually had a hookup the night before.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? I think it was very consensual.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? Nope! I would do it again.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The best thing is that it happened and I got to do it doggy style (I never did it doggy style). The worst part is he brought one lousy condom.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

You want to see/read more about Brina? Check out her Tumblr blog The Lonely Star

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