What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 31
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Self
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Somewhat
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? I had good fun!
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 37
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Double-Vag-Penetration – Totally Unplanned
How long ago did this hookup happen? 3 years
What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)
How would you best classify this hookup? Group Sex
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a week
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? I had a girlfriend, but the relationship wasn’t going well. I was online dating for the purposes of causal sex. I ran across this girl, I’ll call her Liz, and I was invited to hang out with her. She had long fair hair and was very thick. The guy she had been messing around with that later becomes involved was 30-ish too and he was clean and thin.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I arrived at her home, and for a few hours, it was just me and her. She and I had already come to the conclusion that both of us had current sex partners. We were only supposed to hang out and gossip and kill time together…right…
((To aid the rest of the story, I was wearing a tight t-shirt, cotton running shorts, and beneath, a CK red boxer trunk with black trim. Upon my arrival she was wearing a hoodie with a striped black and green boy-cut panty))
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I stayed long enough to get a tour of her home, and her bathtub. After, we decided that the movie we “put on for noise” was not enough noise, so we decided to fill the whirlpool bathtub and turn on the jets. We were only going to get down to our underwear (for her, tank and panties) and (for me, undershirt and boxer trunks) and enjoy a hot jacuzzi bath. (Let speed up to one-thing-leads-to-another) I ended up with fingers inside her. This went on long enough for her to start touching me and getting me involved. Fast forward again and her usual late-night hook-up shows up. I assume he hears the jets running in the master bathroom and he came in likely expecting only to see her. I sat awkwardly as she VERY casually explains the situation. He didn’t appear bothered. Without being too wordy, afterward, we all ended up bathed/showered and we land in the master bedroom lying in Liz’s bed to watch the movie, which was still just noise.
He and I began to take turns with her until he ended up on the bottom with her straddling him as he was inside her pussy, and I was attempting to fuck her in the ass. To clear up any assumptions, it was as nasty as it sounds: he was going unprotected in her pussy and then handing her off to me for a period of time as I also had her unprotected. We both held her hips and exchanged turns putting each other’s dicks into Liz’s pussy. The whole thing was wonderfully unusual, but we didn’t have any lube available. After several attempts, she decided we could both get into her pussy with enough of her natural lube. I pushed myself into her while his cock was resting in her vagina. We began to get into a rhythm and fucked her simultaneously. He came first. After that, her pussy was so wet and slippery I just went in and out with ease. He pulled out his limp, sopping cock from her pussy and he pushed my cock in further. All three of us were still lying atop each other. I continued to fuck Liz through his silky seconds for a few minutes until I came and added to the mess.
Due to his sobriety, he said a brief “goodnight” and “this was fun” to me and Liz and then left.
Liz offered me to sleep on the couch since we’d been drinking. I accepted, but of course, snuck back to the bed where I snuggled up to her and we cuddled in our sex-dampened underwear.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning was simple. We agreed we’d do it again although we never did. I told her I’d take her out on a date one day. I never did.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Intoxication, To feel better about myself, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident, To cheer myself up, I was feeling lonely, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My close friends. They said they would’ve done it in my position.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? A DVP for the first time.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Having to wash my Calvin Klein undies to get the sex-mess out.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Yea…I’m glad I did it.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I loved it
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? I’m slutty so my opinion isn’t too valid.
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