What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 34
What’s your race/ethnicity? Hispanic / Latino/a
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Material Handling
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Agnostic
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1
Down & Dirty.
How long ago did this hookup happen? Three years ago.
What was your relationship status at the time? Single
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a month
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a gorgeous girl. Late 20’s, friendly personality and an amazing body. Short brown hair and a perfect smile. I had only known her for a month before we hooked-up. I met her at work. She found me on Facebook one day and messaged me, inviting me to hang out with her at a casino downtown. I ended up staying at her apartment. Nothing happened the first few times I went over. Then one morning she gave me a blowjob. A while later, she let me fuck her mouth. I was surprised she let me, honestly. I’d never done that before and it was great. She swallowed both times. We had sex randomly twice after that, using condoms. To be honest, I wasn’t particularly attracted to her when we first met. It wasn’t until after we spent some time together.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? This particular hook-up technically began outside of a bar we were at. We were talking one minute, and the next minute we were kissing and touching each other. I pretty much instigated it by telling her I wanted to bring her to my apartment for sex, and she agreed. I had been drinking, and she drove me to my place. I made a bed on the floor for us in the living room, where the lighting was nice and the temperature was cooler than the main bedroom.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? She was standing by the front door, and I walked up to her and kissed her. We started taking each others’ clothes off, and I laid her on the bed. I pulled her pants down, and then mine. We were both completely naked then. She was laying on her back. I was so hard and horny, I wasted no time. I slid my hard cock inside of her and she moaned. I did, too. Her pussy felt so tight, warm and wet. Absolutely amazing. This was our first time having sex without a condom. She was very turned on. While I was fucking her, she dug her nails deep into my back. I had to pin her wrists down so she wouldn’t scratch me, but she seemed to like it. She tried biting my neck after that. I pressed my forehead against hers and kissed her so she wouldn’t bite too hard. She was very into it, I could tell. I was, too. I had to slow down a few times so I wouldn’t cum too quickly. I switched between fucking her hard and fast to hard and slow. I ran my cock in and out of her as deep as it could go. I wanted her so badly that I didn’t want to stop. She came a few times. Each time she would gasp and her legs would shake. I kept going to make sure it was good for her. After a while longer I wanted to bust so badly. She said “I can’t wait for you to cum.” which really got me excited. I told her I was going to cum inside her. She didn’t complain at all. I fucked her for a few more minutes after that. I looked down so I could watch my cock ram her tight wet hole. Her pussy was so good and watching her hot little body bouncing up and down was just too much. I couldn’t hold back anymore. I shoved my cock deep inside her and squirted lots of hot, thick cum in her pussy. We both moaned from pleasure. It felt incredible. She was very passionate during the whole encounter. A great experience. We didn’t really talk about it afterwards. We both had a long night and fell asleep shortly afterwards.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After that hook-up, we had sex the following morning. We spent the day together and she left that evening. I was hoping for a friends with benefits deal, but she was looking for something more serious. I haven’t talked to her in years, but I would definitely hook-up with her again if she wanted.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, To cheer myself up
How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I don’t really kiss and tell. I’m only telling this here because it’s anonymous.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? The sexual compatibility. Both of us being so into each other physically.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I felt a little guilty knowing that she wanted a more serious relationship with me. I had gone through a bad break-up previously and wasn’t ready for that kind of commitment yet, but she was a really great person.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was nice. No complaints.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex for me just fills the void when you’re lonely and the desire for intimacy is high. There have been times where it’s made me feel awkward and even ashamed but that’s probably because I’m a very self-conscious person who probably cares a little too much about what others think of me at times.
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? This is a great outlet to share intimate stories. It’s almost like therapy. I don’t often feel comfortable talking about my sex life with people I know, despite sometimes having the urge to.
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