What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 67
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
What’s your occupation? Hair Stylist
What’s your current relationship status? Engaged/Married (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Still constantly horny at age 67
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 30 plus
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None
Dream Come True
How long ago did this hookup happen? 35 years ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Dating casually
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For 1 to 3 years
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Jan was a client of mine. She was my size, 5’6″, somewhat busty, reasonably trim with “just a little meat on her”, but really built nicely, with great tits. I had been cutting her hair for a little over a year or so. She wore a short sexy boy cut, really feminine looking (kind of like a Halle Berry cut). We always had a great time when she came in for a haircut, laughing, joking, and flirtatious with each other. She was single and managed an audio store in the mall where I cut hair. I, on the other hand, was, over a period of months, just getting out of a bad, crazy marriage and had just moved out of the house and separated, but was not yet fully divorced. From the first time I ever met her as a client, I wanted to fuck her. I could see through her tight jeans that she had an ass carved by the hands of God. literally. Always thought to myself, aside from wanting her sexually, that wow, we would probably make a great couple and have tons of fun together. She loved to laugh. My kind of gal as my then wife whom I was separating from was in plain words: miserable.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? It was actually quite simple, really. She had come in for a hair cut, and as usual, I was in full lust for that delicious body of hers. I had not seen her (other than casually around the mall) for close to 7 or 8 weeks and during that time I had finally moved out of the house and started legal separation from the wife……I mentioned to her very casually during the course of our 45 minute session what was transpiring with me and the soon to be ex wife, and more over than I was in my own place now. It really was as simple as saying “Hey why don’t you come over for a drink tonight?”……She played a bit coy at first, and was “feigning” hesitation….kind of “Well, gee, I don’t know….” but the fact of the matter was that I could tell that she wanted to screw me as much as I wanted to screw her, and just didnt want the whole thing to appear like she was giving in to me so easily. She finally agreed, asked me what time, as we both worked full days at the mall till 9. I asked her what she liked to drink and she immediately said “Asti Spumanti.” I was a beer guy didn’t even know what it was, but you could bet that I ran out on my lunch hour to the liquor store across the street to get some. The deal was sealed, and we both said “See you tonite,” and I gave her directions to the apartment which was only 2 blocks from the mall.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Jan came over the apartment at 9 sharp, as planned. To tell you the truth, I was a bit shocked that she actually did come, I was expecting a no show, for what ever reason. We drank a little, made small talk, she liked the apartment, we sat and watched some tv but really it was very brief, as in a matter of 15 minutes from relaxing on the couch together, we were all over each other. I simply took her by the hand at that point and led her into the bedroom. We started kissing passionately as I began to undress her standing up…..jumped into bed and game on. Heavy duty kissing and feeling of each other’s bodies top to bottom. She had a great way of backhand stroking my cock and it took every ounce of strength for me not to cum. I put her flat on her back and slowly worked my way down her body with my mouth, especially those breasts. She had my favorite kind of nipple, brown in color, and oblong aureole, just looking at them could make you crazy. I worked my way down and began to eat her pussy and listened to her moan. 35 years later, I remember all this like it was yesterday, and quite frankly relive it in my mind every day. …….We finally fucked, in missionary for probably close to 20 minutes, first very slow and passionately, and then faster and harder with her legs up and wrapped around my waist tightly. God could she kiss… tongue in my ear, the works. I flipped her over and we did doggie for a while, but for some reason went back to missionary. She had a way of lifting me as she was underneath me, and I presume it was to position herself for deeper penetration and clitoral contact because she came heavy with loud moans, as did I, and it was almost in perfect sync. After we laid there face to face on our sides for a few minutes kissing lightly, she began to work her way down my chest and to my crotch… I was now on my back, and she gave me one of the best blowjobs I had ever gotten. What struck me, even more, was that she was verbal, which shocked me… I had never had a girl say to me “God, I love your cock”. …..Really floored me. We were both so sweaty and “spent”, for lack of a better word, I’m surprised we didn’t do a Round Two……I said, “Hey let’s take a shower….I’ll lather you head to toe, and then blow dry your hair” (after all, I AM a professional !!) We took a great hot shower together, but it was getting late and we both had early days with work the next day. We hooked up two more times after that, and, unfortunately, nothing beyond those two more times came out of it. I think the reality of it was that we liked each other alot, were very very sexually compatible, but both had met other people and moved on. Great memories though and without question, the best sex I ever had….she was in plain words, an animal in bed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Saw each other almost daily in the mall and hooked up for sex two more times, each one being very, very hot, and then we just moved on. I actually bumped into her about 10 years ago… I was with my wife in the mall, standing in the checkout line in Macy’s… She was in front of me, and I did not recognize her as she initially had her back to me and now had gray hair, but as soon as she turned around and saw each other, we kind of gasped, and then smiled.”Jan, my God, How are you??? ” “Oh God, good, how are YOU…My god, it must me 30 years” We made some small talk and that was it.”Good seeing you, take care,” we both said just about the same thing as she checked out her item and went on her merry way. “Who was that?” my wife asked. “Oh God, …Jan was a client of mine so very long ago when I worked her in the mall. I havent seen her in a dog’s age, and surprised she still recognized me, Hon…”
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Power / Dominance, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one really
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? I don’t know / I’m not sure
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Without question, this girl was the hottest thing in bed I had ever been with
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing…..
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not at all
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Think about it every, every day…..
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? I think casual sex can be good provided it is done responsibly, consensually, and no one gets hurt, nor are expectation levels as to the future there unless both parties want to continue, and maybe, just maybe, it may develop beyond that.
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