What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 23
What’s your race/ethnicity? East Asian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (currently pursuing)
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Bisexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 20+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Dream Come True
How long ago did this hookup happen? Two days ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Group sex
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? They were a couple, and both were fit, white, muscular men. The most memorable part of their bodies was their very well defined pecs. They had pretty/handsome faces. It was my first time meeting them after talking on an app for two or so days. One of them actually messaged me first, and I was surprised he was into me. I was really excited to meet them, especially since it would only be my second threesome, but I also half expected it to be a catfish because they really looked too good to be true.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? The day that we met, we went back and forth a little more, but he still seemed interested. We traded pics to verify that we were real, but honestly they could have been catfishing me the whole time for pics. He also said he needed to confirm with his partner that it would work, but I had already headed out to their place because it was far and I was too excited to let this opportunity slip by showing up too late. When I got to their place, one of the most gorgeous men opened the door for me and showed me into a beautiful house.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We talked a bit at first, me not knowing how to progress the threesome, and we talked about our backgrounds. Eventually, one of them slid over from one end of the couch to me and I think we started making out. I tried to get my hands on their bodies, especially those bulging pecs, as much as I could. They told me how attractive they found me, which just put me over the moon. These two hot guys who were a fantasy come true actually liked me! Shirts came off, then pants came off, then we were headed upstairs to the bedroom. At first I was blowing both of them, and they even blew me while I was sucking on someone. Again, I tried to grab every piece of their body that I could, but I didn’t do it enough. I was too engrossed in the moment when we were kissing or when I was blowing them.
Eventually, one of them lubed up and started fingering me while I was sucking on the other. They were really caring, asking if I was okay with anal before opening up the condom. The first guy had me on all fours on the bed and slid in slowly. He was really thick so I needed to take it slow, but as I warmed up and he started thrusting more, I was blowing his partner. I used the force of his thrusting to push my mouth forward onto his partner’s cock. Honestly, it felt like we could have been filming a porn video. When we switched, the other guy had me lay on my back as he thrust into me from the edge of the bed. I had the first guy crawl over me so I could blow him at the same time. After a while, he got close and I switched back to anal with the first guy. We ended with them jerking off and cumming on my face, with me cumming on my stomach. We cleaned up, went downstairs, and talked for a little more.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? Nothing has happened so far since I don’t want to push them. The next day I was unbelievably horny just thinking about it and recalling it to one of my friends. I really hope I can meet them again because they are truly a dream come true.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Discussed STI testing history
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Learning new things, experimenting, Thought it was an important experience to have, To feel more desirable, To feel more confident
How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How intoxicated was your partner? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I talked to one of my friends who I usually talk to about my hookup adventures. They found it pretty hot.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Meeting and playing with two men who could have stepped out of a Men’s Health magazine.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Not spending enough time admiring their bodies.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I feel like I should place more value in my hookups now, to save the energy for memorable experiences like this one that don’t come every day. I don’t know if this will actually reduce the frequency that I do have casual sex though.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m still in shock that it happened.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex definitely improved my life once I became more open to it. Growing up being taught not to fool around, I realize now that it’s a very basic need and should be treated as normally as any other part of life. I respect some religions’ beliefs on abstinence, but believe that a person should be given the choice to indulge this basic human need (if they want to of course).
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It’s a great place to read about other people’s experience and see if you can relate. It’s also interesting to read about people’s experiences which you’ll never experience yourself. Peering into this deeply personal part of so many people’s lives helps normalize things we might otherwise feel ashamed about. Also, being able to submit a story is a great outlet for any thoughts people may have on their sexual experiences. I know I needed some release by writing about my experience.
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