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What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 48
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
Highest education received: Some college (currently in college)
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 3o
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? None

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 20 years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? Work colleagues, but not the same branch and we’d flirted by phone in the past.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I was leaving to take up a new position & he suggested we meet for a beer.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? i met the guy for drinks on something of a blind date. He was good looking and we got on really well. He said it was a pity the evening had to end. Did it, I responded and we soon agreed to get a room. After a few “housefuls” we got into a hotel that had seen better days, but once in the room we were all over each other and kissed and groped. We helped each other with our clothes…soon I was down to my bra and panty set, and spied his impressive bulge! He then popped out his large cock which had a slight curve. Before long we were on the bed and I slipped on a condom and sat on him, savouring his size. After a little while he put me on my back and thrust in strongly, I raised my legs to get him deeper. Soon he pulled out and put my legs on his shoulders and proceed to bang me hard. I came and almost immediately felt his growing cock and his loud grunting signalled his climax. We fell asleep and in the night I was woken to feel a hard cock rubbing against my leg. He rubbed my pussy but it did not need much to open me; this time he immediately put my legs on his shoulders and simply took his pleasure. I came again and once more we slept. The next morning we showered together and he entered from behind for a further round of very intense pleasure. We dried off and I left for work…

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? There was no follow up from him, despite two messages from me. This hurt, but more that I reckon he told colleagues about ‘having me’ – not a gentleman.
At this remove in time I laugh, and think of the great sex that night!

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Condoms, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Intoxication, To feel better about myself, I was feeling lonely

How intoxicated were you? A little tipsy/high

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? A little tipsy/high

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one.

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? A little bit

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Great sex.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? No follow up…

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, fun is fun!

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Great!

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