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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? North America
What country and/or city do you live in? USA
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Student
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation:
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 25+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 4

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How long ago did this hookup happen? 4 Years

What was your relationship status at the time? Single

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? She was a gorgeous blonde with a stunning face with a few extra pounds. I knew her recently through a group of friends that hung out often. She had come around but we never talked one on one too much, but we got along really well. She had some extra tickets to a show one night and invited me out to go. We had a good time that night but nothing happened and was strictly platonic.

One night I was away on vacation and for whatever reason super horny when she hit me up on Facebook messenger. She was drunk too and while the details escape me it turned sexual kind of quick, from a curiosity standpoint to a more direct pickup by her specifically. By the end of the conversation it was set when I got back that I would go over to her place and ‘hang out’ which didn’t exactly mean those words at that point. Being super horny at the time I was really into it, but when I got back it took me a while to work up the courage to message her to arrange the hookup because I barely knew her.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? After a couple weeks I was really horny again and she messaged me on Facebook. After some light conversation she turned sexual and I was way into it. Both of us were crazy horny, and then she told me she wanted me to fuck me right then. I couldn’t stand it so I got her address and went over to her house, ready to fuck her brains out.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? I got to her house and knocked on her front door, not entirely sure what to expect. The place she lived in was nice, and she invited me inside and offered me a glass of something to drink and I accepted. It was a little awkward at first, but we were making small talk until I broke it by suggesting we move to the bedroom. She showed me to the bedroom and as soon as we got there I moved up towards her from behind, grabbed her hips and started sucking on her neck and ears.

She immediately took to it and started rubbing on my hands and body, moving my hands to her chest and pussy the more we got into it. I started grinding my rock hard cock into her butt through our clothes until I was too hot to hold back. I undid her belt and slid her jeans down, continuing rubbing her pussy like I was through her jeans before. After a couple minutes of this she turns around to face me and starts undoing my pants as I take her shirt off. She gets down on her knees and starts jacking my dick off, then slides it into her lips all while looking at me directly in the eye. I had never had as much eye contact before, and it seriously turned me on. She sucked my cock super hard and I had her grabbed by the hair helping her with the momentum really rough. It wasn’t long before I was ready to fuck, and I told her to get on the bed and get on her hands and feet.

I started to get up behind her when she told me she’d rather me not wear one but she had condoms in her top drawer if I wanted. I told her I’d rather feel all of her as I rubbed the tip of my dick on her clit to get lubricated. This turned her on in a huge way and as I prolonged rubbing her clit she kept bucking back into me to try and get me to penetrate her.

I finally sunk my dick deep into her and started slow fucking her, taking in the visual of my ridiculously wet cock sliding in and out of her pussy. She asked me if she liked what I felt and saw and I told her I loved it, along with a detailed description of both. The more I told her the harder she bucked back into me, prompting me to thrust into her faster and harder until I was fucking her pussy as hard as I could. Luckily she wasn’t as tight as normal so I was able to last for a while inside her, pulling her hair and slapping her ass along the way.

Halfway through I flipped her over on her back and started fucking her missionary. Usually when I have sex I avoid eye contact but in this case we were staring each other down and she was daring me to pull her hair and fuck her as hard as I could. We fucked like this for a good 10 minutes until I was ready to blow. I had actually heard her mention when we were hanging out that she was on birth control, so I took the chance and shoved it as deep as I pumped every bit of cum in my balls into her pussy as I could.

She started kissing me as passionately as she could as I finished cumming, which I realized was the first time we had actually kissed. I could tell she REALLY liked that I had cum inside her, and asked me how I knew she was on birth control. I lied and told her I didn’t know and she was really shocked that I was so nonchalant with cumming inside of her. Before I knew it she was requesting round 2, and we fucked again.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, more than one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, multiple

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning I woke up and found myself in bed and she was nowhere to be seen. I laid there thinking if I should get up and go or stay there and after a few minutes she came back to bed and noticed me awake. She then requested round 3 and we went at it again, but my dick was so sore from the night before I tried to cum in her as quick as I could before it got too uncomfortable. It was kind of weird in a way because we really didn’t talk much outside the dirty stuff and being polite, but it was comfortable at the same time since we were both there to get business taken care of.

We agreed to do it again and met up quite a few times for a couple years. I made sure to make it quick though each time after that, which usually comprised of a 30 minute stop over when I was in her area. Every situation went from a hey how have you been to fucking in a matter of minutes and afterwards I’d get dressed and tell her I’d see her again soon. There was something extremely erotic about the casual and no-talking nature of our meetups that kept me eager to fill her up as much as I could.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None, Birth control pill / patch / ring / injection / implant

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Intoxication

How intoxicated were you? Not at all (no alcohol or drugs)

How intoxicated was your partner? Small amount of alcohol or drugs, not enough to feel it

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one, we both agreed early on that we would tell no one to prevent complications based on everyone we knew.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? It almost felt like anonymous sex, given that we didn’t know each other at the time and barely knew each other for the years following. I think that alone kept us coming back for more, since we didn’t have anything in common or between us except for physical attraction and just wanting to shoot my load inside her.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I definitely didn’t want to knock her up but couldn’t resist not pulling out since she didn’t want me to in the first place. At the time I just decided to risk living with the consequences. Also I had other partners during that time and assumed she did too, so I know we were probably both fucking others raw on the side too. Don’t like the idea of STDs.

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Sometimes in very rare cases two people really do just want to exchange fluids and aren’t interested in anything else.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? She actually had a couple relationships during the time we were fucking. Go figure.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Good but also kind of dirty. Just the way I like it.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Awesome.

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