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What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 30
What’s your race/ethnicity? South Asian
What continent do you live on? Asia
What country and/or city do you live in? Mumbai
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Banking
What’s your current relationship status? In a serious relationship (monogamous)
Religious affiliation: Hindu
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 1

Drunk Hookup

How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 years

What was your relationship status at the time? In a relationship (monogamous)

How would you best classify this hookup? Fuck-buddies / Booty call

How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than a year

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? We went to the same college but never got to interact much. She was pretty with a nice figure and really cute dimples. Once we both moved to Mumbai for post-college, we would chat sometimes. She invited me to her friend’s bachelorette party. She wore a real sexy tube romper and we eyed each other a lot, although nothing sexual happened that night. She was pretty hot and I could sense some sexual tension between us.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? I had gone out with her (and her 2 roommates) bar hopping. All three of them buzzed up and she ended up inviting me to their apartment for a midnight snack. I was cooking in the kitchen when she came in (she had changed into her night shorts and a green t-shirt) and told me that the other two have crashed. She kissed me out of the blue and I ended up smooching her back. She seemed pretty horny and we made out for sometime in the kitchen. I removed her shirt and bra while kissing her neck. I tossed them into the corner (which her roomie found the next morning). By that time, I was pretty horny as she was rubbing her ass on my dick. I lifted her up and took her into the hall to continue.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? We kissed a lot on the sofa. I got totally naked and ended up removing her shorts and panties. She had really nice boobs, which I sucked while fingering her. The atmosphere was so hot, but also scary as her roomies could have walked in us at any moment. She sucked my dick. I had to try hard not to cum in her mouth. I started to rub my cock on her wet pussy. She was a bit scared of her roomies waking up but we had reached the point of no return. I pushed my cock into into her with force. It felt so warm with her moistness that I started pumping harder and harder. By that time, we were kissing madly and my hand was massaging her boobs. We fucked in missionary and then rode me. After some time, I was ready to cum and she asked me not to blow inside her. I took my dick out and she put it in her mouth (her tongue played with the head) as I kept fingering her cunt. She came hard, which excited me more and I came in her mouth. We realized it was 4 am, so she left to sleep in the other room. I slept for some time in the hall before leaving to go home. Before leaving, I woke her up and we had a nice morning kiss.

How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very

Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one

Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? I felt really happy since I got to have sex with such a hot girl unexpectedly. We met a couple of times after that, but she didnt look interested in any further hookups. After a year, she moved to another town and we lost touch.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) Withdrawal

What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Intoxication, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient

How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did you consume? Alcohol

How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted

What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol

How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Somewhat

Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I gave enthusiastic consent

How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very

Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They gave enthusiastic consent

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I told my best friend and she was happy that i got some real good sex.

How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? Relatively positive

Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all

Do you regret this hookup? Not at all

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? Having sex with a friend without any planning.

What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Nothing

Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? No, infact this instigated me to look for more casual sex.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup? It was real good and made me wonder why I did not approach her in college.

What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Casual sex is wonderful and everybody should give it a try.

What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? It is a great website for people to come forward and write down their encounters.

You have a hookup story to share? Submit it here!