What’s your gender? Woman
How old are you? 45
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Australia
What country and/or city do you live in? Tasmania
Highest education received: Post-graduate degree (eg., MA, MS, PhD, JD, MD)
What’s your occupation? Financial Consultant
What’s your current relationship status? Dating casually
Religious affiliation: Free Thinker
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Mostly gay/lesbian
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? Dating & Sleeping with many women
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? About 30+
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Drunk Lesbian Night
How long ago did this hookup happen? 5 Nights back
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? Short fling
How long did you know the person before this hookup? Just met that day
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? More like a very drunken quickie at a club on a Saturday night. I was with colleagues at a club in Kuala Lumpur in Malaysia while on my business trip.
She was one of the younger employees of the company. Came in same time, she was an intern, 25 years old, Chinese race, athletic build and definitely my type. She was a bisexual. She definitely took a few looks at me that night.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Around close to midnight, the dancefloor was getting packed, all of us drank too much, high as hell. I took her to the dancefloor, gave her some kisses. We proceed to the female bathroom.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Picked a cubicle, pushed her on the seat, we kissed vigorously going down on her and her me. Kept a spare strapon in my bag. Took it out made her suck it, then fucked her pussy until she came. I licked her pussy to completion.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? Very
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? Yes, one
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We rejoined the others. Took her back to my hotel room after and continued fucking. We exchanged contacts, she came over every night since then after work, we have sex and she leaves by 10 pm.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) None
What were your motives for this hookup? Fun, pleasure, horniness, Attraction to partner(s), Emotional intimacy, closeness, connection, Hoping or expecting it would lead to something more, Intoxication, Making new friends, Just happened, I don’t know why, just went along with it, It was easy / convenient
How intoxicated were you? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol
How intoxicated was your partner? Drunk/high but not wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Very
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but I didn’t give a ‘no’
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Somewhat
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? They didn’t give a clear ‘yes’, but didn’t give a ‘no’
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? No one. Kept it discreet between us both.
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Not at all
Do you regret this hookup? Not at all
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I had really craved have sex with a woman for some time. Glad I met her. She’s my first partner under 30 in a while, first time a Chinese.
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? Wished she could spend the night with me instead of leaving halfway. Really want to cuddle with her till morning.
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Never has it changed. Still remains the same.
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Very positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Not at all negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? Looking forward to the following nights to come.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? No
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Loving the lesbian stories.
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