by Shawny Hale

Gender: Female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: Pacific
Current location: New Zealand
Highest education received: Not graduated from high-school
Occupation: Student
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: …
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 2
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Drunk One Offs

How long ago did this hookup happen? Couple weeks

How would you best classify this hookup (e.g., one-night stand, fuck-buddies, friends-with-benefits, booty call, sex with an ex, short fling; paid sex…)? One Night Stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was a friend of my popular good looking cousin. He was a couple years older than me and really a bad boy. Your usual drug/alcohol crime life, experienced with multiple girls. So hot! Player image but still charming, I thought he was sexy straight away. Sex at first sight?

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? Me and my sister were picking up out cousins and mates to go off to a party and I got left behind with my somewhat slutty cousin and two of his mates. I felt uncomfortable being the only girl but I loosened up as we got to the party. I found my best friend and we left so she could go piss somewhere lol. The guy came out and made sure we were okay. We were left alone and he asked me for a kiss. I was instantly attracted to him after that, I tried not to show it though and brush it off like I didn’t care.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Me and my best friend decided to leave the party oy for my cousins two mates to follow us. I sat down and excluded myself while they drunk talked when he suddenly just sat down next to me on the grass. I don’t know what came over me but the next second I lean in and kiss him two seconds later im pushing him to the ground , i can here my bestfriend saying “omg shawny” then another two seconds later I’ve climbed on top of him still kissing him the entire time then I start running my fingers through his hair. I was so shocked by my outburst and I hadn’t asked him or made sure we were on the same page..but surely when I let him breathe he gasps “wow you turn me on”. He guides me over to a different spot of by the trees (night) and sure enough I see my best friend on the other guy. My guys meanwhile walking behind me stroking his hands downwards on my stomach.We sat and i suddenly remember I had alchohol so skull then I went down on him. The outdoor sex was new and exciting and I continued to give him mind blowing oral, his friends yelling into the darkness for him to hurry up, his response  “can you just wait man? I’m having the greatest pleasure of my life”. After a decent while I decide to let him in so he lays down his jacket and I let him get on top for the first time. He did not dissapoint! The sex was good (never seems to last long enough though) then we ended and went back to the party together.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I sadly didn’t (what’s new?), but he did. We ended with a funny but alarming “sorry I forgot to pull out”.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? Complete spur of the moment, totally forgot. Im on birth control.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? Too drunk.

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? Large amount of alchohol and marijuana. He may have been on synthetics. Diffeney enhanced the experience!

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? We proceeded to spend the rest of the night together, sleep together again at home. Woke up at about 3am spent the rest of the night/morning partying and hooking up occasionally. Although he was a nice person and a menace in bed I don’t wish to further communicate with him. One night concept and all.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? My bestfriend. My sister cousins found out eventually but it was no big deal.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? I guess you could say its a part of the whole exploring your sexuality and growing up shaz. I’m new to this whole college lifestyle.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? No. I did get std problems but nothing major. Nothing bad enough for me to regret it!

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? The worst was probably the drunken not exactly gracefulness and I discovered of myself lol, it could be viewed as a positive though. The actual sex while he was on top definitely highlight of the night. It defenitly changed my view on how dominant I can be.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Fairly positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? A little negative

Anything else you want to add about this hookup or anything else? Use a condom lol.

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