What’s your gender? Man
How old are you? 22
What’s your race/ethnicity? White / Caucasian
What continent do you live on? Europe
What country and/or city do you live in? London
Highest education received: College degree (eg., BA, BS)
What’s your occupation? Health sector
What’s your current relationship status? Single
Religious affiliation: Atheist
How religious are you? Not at all
What’s your sexual orientation? Heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexuality or sexual identity? No
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 12
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0
Drunk Unwanted Head
How long ago did this hookup happen? 2 weeks ago
What was your relationship status at the time? Same as current status
How would you best classify this hookup? One-night stand
How long did you know the person before this hookup? For less than 6 months
Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? This girl was a friend of a girl I was into. She was pretty good looking, about 5’6 and brunette. We’d never hooked up before but we’d met maybe 5 times in bigger groups.
How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? In this group there are six of us in total, three guys and three girls. One of the guys was celebrating his 22nd birthday so we were all out on the town just having fun. No planning was involved but she instigated it.
What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? Towards the end of the night, everyone was pretty drunk, one of the girls went home in a cab with two of the guys, leaving me with the girl I liked and her mate who, unbeknownst to me, would soon be sucking me off. We all got a cab back to the girls house as it was only a short walk from hers to mine and I didn’t want to pay the extra couple of pounds. I could hardly stand, let alone walk, so both girls said I should take the sofa in the living room, to which I agreed.
Both girls went upstairs and I crashed on the sofa, I put my head back and I was out. Not long after that I felt an incredibly warm feeling down below, I shot open my eyes because I thought I’d wet myself. To my surprise there she was kneeling between my legs, my jeans unzipped and rolled slightly down and my boxers pushed over to the side, the girl I liked was fast asleep upstairs and her best friend was between my legs gagging on my cock. At this point she still didn’t know I was awake as it was dark and I was in complete shock at what was happening so hadn’t made a sound.
My head started to spin and I began to get dizzy as the noises of her sucking my dick filled the room, she transitioned between wanking me fast then sucking me slowly. I was drunk so it took me a really long time to cum, until she deepthroated me and rest only her tongue on my balls. I could feel the head of my cock well past her tonsils and that’s when I couldn’t hold it any longer. I started to twitch hard and before I knew it I shot all my cum straight down her throat into her. She looked up at me and her eyes widened as she came to the realization at what she’d just done and that I was awake for it.
She pulled my dick out of her throat and stood up, crying she told me it was a drunken accident and that she was so sorry, I was still kind of shocked and still super drunk so all I could muster was “fuck”. Still crying she knelt down again begging me not to tell anyone, I put my dick back in my pants and told her to go to bed.
How sexually satisfying was this hookup? A little
Did you have an orgasm? Yes, one
Did your partner have an orgasm? No
What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it the next day? What are/were your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? The next morning I got up and went to the bathroom to give myself a quick wash. I got a knock on the door and it was her, she told me she was devastated at what she’d done, tearing up again. I told her that it was pretty fucked up but to forget about it (I had no reason to tell anyone as I was still interested in her friend). She walked off down the hall back into the bedroom, 5 minutes later both girls were in the kitchen chatting and I came in briefly just to say my goodbyes.
Although a blowjob is a blowjob as most guys will say and I agree to some extent. There’s a level of trust that was broken that day So I generally steer clear if she’s out with us now just to avoid awkwardness.
What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? (Check all that apply) No penetrative sex occurred.
What were your motives for this hookup? I didn’t want it but was unable to stop it
How intoxicated were you? Completely wasted
What substances did you consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How intoxicated was your partner? Completely wasted
What substances did your partner(s) consume? Alcohol, Marijuana, hashish
How wanted was this hookup for you at the time? Not at all
Did you consent to this hookup at the time? I was too out of it / passed out / asleep and therefore unable to give consent
How wanted was this hookup for your partner at the time? Very
Did your partner(s) consent to this hookup? I’m not sure / I don’t know
To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? Nobody, I told nobody
How would you best summarize people’s reactions about this hookup? I didn’t tell anyone
Did you get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? A little bit
Did your partner get emotionally hurt as a result of this hookup? Very
Do you regret this hookup? Very much
Why do you regret this hookup? It betrayed my trust in her knowing she would do that to me in my sleep.
What was the BEST thing about this hookup? I at least came
What was the WORST thing about this hookup? I didn’t consent, betrayal of trust
Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? Not really
All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive
All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Somewhat negative
Anything else you want to add about this hookup? I’m now dating the girl I had feelings for but I can’t shake the feeling that her friend gave me better head.
What are your thoughts on casual sex more generally, the role it has played in your life, and/or its role in society? What would you like to see changed in that regard? Not much really, as long as you’re safe then shag away
What do you think about the Casual Sex Project? Good site to share experiences
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