by  Jessica

Gender: Female
Age: 18
Race/ethnicity: Caucasian
Current location: Canberra, Australia
Highest education received: Some college (not currently in college)
Occupation: Nursing
Relationship status: Single
Religious affiliation: Christian
How religious are you? A little
Sexual orientation: Mostly heterosexual
Any other term(s) that describe your sexual orientation/sexuality better/best? Bi-Curious
How many sexual partners have you had in your life (including oral sex)? 6
How many hookup stories have you here posted before? 0

Drunk Booty Call

How long ago did this hookup happen? 21/04/2014

How would you best classify this hookup? Booty call/One night stand

Tell us about your PARTNER(S). What did they look like? How well did you know them, had you hooked up before? How/Where did you meet them? How did you feel about them before the hookup? He was 5’9, small build, Chilean, really cute. I met him on facebook through mutual friends, we clicked through same music likings and outlooks on life. He always made side comments about us hooking up. I thought he was a nice guy, cute and really down to earth.

How/where did the hookup BEGIN? What led to it? Was planning involved? Who instigated it? We flirted through texts. I was at a big nightclub that Sean Kingston was performing at and got ridiculously drunk. I texted him to come pick me up, he asked what was in it for him and I replied with a wink face. He took me to his friends house that wasn’t home, I had no idea where I was, I was too drunk.

What happened DURING the hookup? What sexual behaviors took place (e.g., oral, vaginal, anal, kinky stuff)? How did you feel during it? How did they behave toward you? Were they a good lover? What did you talk about? How did it end? It was just sex, he didn’t want to perform any foreplay. We kissed for a few minutes but that was all, besides just sex. From what I remember he wasn’t very good, it was very quick and he basically told me what to do and to shut up.

Did you have an orgasm? Did your partner(s)? I did not orgasm, though he did.

What precautions did you take to prevent STIs and pregnancy? Did you discuss STI history? I was ridiculously drunk I didn’t really know what was going on. He didn’t use a condom. I have an implanon rod in my arm to prevent pregnancy.

What were your REASONS for having this hookup? I was horny, and drunk. My judgement was cloudy….

Were alcohol or drugs involved? If so, how much? I had a lot of tequila and vodka that night.

What happened AFTER the hookup? How did you feel about it? What are your expectations/hopes for the future with this person? How do you feel about them now? After the hook up, he blocked me on facebook and didn’t contact me. I never tried to contact him, the blocking was a clear message.

To whom did you talk about the hookup? How did they react? I haven’t told anybody about our hookup, I am embarrassed, but also disgusted that he could see how drunk I was and still continued to have sex with me, although I instigated it, I was very drunk.

Was this a consensual and/or wanted experience for you? For your partner? It was consensual to my drunken ability yeah.

Do you regret this hookup? If so, why? I do regret it, I feel like a fool and it was a massive blow to my self esteem, to be blocked after having sex.

What was the BEST thing about this hookup? How about the WORST? Has this hookup changed the way you think about casual sex, sexuality, or yourself in general? I don’t remember much, to know the best. The worst thing is that he blocked me after, with no explanation. I will probably not be so open to casual sex anymore.

All things considered, how POSITIVE was this experience? Not at all positive

All things considered, how NEGATIVE was this experience? Very negative

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